if its true that women are 100% reactive to what men do

[princesimba]

then why are we blaming them for all the sh1t tests, disrespect or bad behaviour should we turn AFC?

After all, they're just reacting to our actions.

So what really makes a woman "who she is"? We always hear the phrase "she has shown you she is not worth your time" but isnt it our fault? Like they always say, if her interest level is high enough, all these tests/games wouldnt happen

 

[Zarky]

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[VladPatton]

Only when they're interested or have a scope in mind. Other than that, you can set yourself on fire and she won't blink.

 

[foreverAFC]

its not common, but in my limited experience there are females out there who are down to earth and straight forward, and have no problem asking you to hang out, but like i said in a world where everyone is fake and has their guards all the time up its not common but they are out there

 

[Mike32ct]

Only when they're interested or have a scope in mind. Other than that, you can set yourself on fire and she won't blink.

^This.

There is this PUA myth that if you "act right" any woman will be attracted to you.

It doesn't really work that way.

 

[princesimba]

Response: Its not true that women are 100% reactive to what men do.

what i meant was

say you turned AFC around a girl

isnt it normal, maybe even acceptable for her to start disrespecting you or give you bad behaviour?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

^This.

There is this PUA myth that if you "act right" any woman will be attracted to you.

It doesn't really work that way.

+1 rep

There was big money some time ago in getting poor saps to believe that looks don't matter. It still happens, but most men are not stupid anymore and realize that just like them, women are human and are programmed for the same basic instincts...finding the most suitable (best looking, most symmetrical face, etc) mate.

The only difference is that women are actually pickier over looks. I have see women turn guys down constantly over height. "Oh I only date men taller than 6'0". I haven't seen many guys turn down a girl because her breasts are too small though.

But of course, the media brainwashes everyone to make men look like the shallow ones.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Children naturally need correction because their bent is toward selfishness.

Women naturally need correction because they cannot really leave childhood (if you define adulthood as the harnessing and taming of emotion, as we men are required to do).

There is a reason why nearly every girlfriend I've had has said, "Atom, I love how you set boundaries for me."

If only men would come to realize that women crave a man who will set boundaries (they will not call them "rules", in fact they hate that word), and are happiest when they have a man who rules the relationship as a benevolent king. It shocks them at first, then they love it because it is a natural catalyst in a healthy relationship.

 

[princesimba]

Children naturally need correction because their bent is toward selfishness.

Women naturally need correction because they cannot really leave childhood (if you define adulthood as the harnessing and taming of emotion, as we men are required to do).

There is a reason why nearly every girlfriend I've had has said, "Atom, I love how you set boundaries for me."

If only men would come to realize that women crave a man who will set boundaries (they will not call them "rules", in fact they hate that word), and are happiest when they have a man who rules the relationship as a benevolent king. It shocks them at first, then they love it because it is a natural catalyst in a healthy relationship.

Thats what im confused

We always hear do not tolerate this behaviour, do not tolerate that behaviour

But when is it your fault and not hers?

And what exactly does 'do not tolerate' mean? The only thing you can actually do is walk away. "Oh shes been my girlfriend for very long time but becos she didnt pick up my call im gonna ignore her" LOL?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Well, you're speaking in very general terms so it's hard to zero in on specifics. Knowing when it's your fault and not hers comes from experience and maturity.

If she acts disrespectfully you should speak to her about it in a matter-of-fact, non-emotional way. Tell her this is not acceptable to you and it needs to stop. If she continues the behavior then a man has one and only one tool, but the tool is a nuclear weapon... Remove your attention. How much to remove depends on the offense.

Men have standards of behavior that are completely different from what women have been brainwashed to have. They need to be trained out of their feminized and media-based education. The natural order of things is for women to strive to live up to a man's expectations, but the media and politicians have forced a complete reversal of this natural law and now men are running around monkey-dancing for approval and thinking, "There must be something wrong with me".