"If i give you a million dollars..."

[Leopold]

"If i give you a million dollars would you drive 22 miles to get it?"

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Short story. Thanks to reading these forums and 3 months of self improvement so far I FINALLY managed to get a phone number on my first attempts in online dating. The convo went really well... there is lots of sexual attraction and all and she loved my profile. I got her phone and Im planning to set up a date soon.

She lives around 23 miles away... and Im not very familiar with the places around over there. I want to set up a first date so we can roller skate/dance together over I place I know.

I will tell her I dont know any places over there and I want to go together rollerskating over a place i know ( taking the lead). I feel like Im putting a very important test here to determine her interest level... if she's willing to drive that far to meet me.

Do you guys think Im taking things too far?

They way I see it is that if she's really interested she will drive no matter what because Im worth like a million dollars and she'll be lucky to go out with me. Of course... I will make sure to compensate and reward her for her dedication if she actually follows up with a BLAST of fun and I'll end up paying for her ticket entrance (not food and drinks tho).

If she flakes... Its HER LOST not mines!!!! I was doing her a favor after all... she's the one who is lucky to go with such a wonder guy as myself.

I will try to get more numbers and come up with Plans B and maybe even C just in case... I learned through here girls flake and lots but I will always have plenty of options...

I need words of advice and hear from you guys and know if Im going towards the right track.

THANKS GUYS You are all the best.. I own a lot to you all by getting this far!!!

 

[backseatjuan]

Take her for a coffee.


On my first online date, she contacted me, I answered around 11 am, and met her 11 pm (was planning 10, but she had kid problems). We went for a coffee. She wouldn't shut up. I took some fast food with us and we went on top of this mountain with view on the city, off road. We ate. And I fvcked her. She asked me not to cvm inside her, so I end up cvmming on her tits, and I fed her my cvm with my finger. We fvcked without condom!

I think you making two mistakes.

1. you taking too long to meet with her
2. you planning things too big


You gotta go for same day date, with time she contacts you. Plus you gotta go for a simple coffee (conversation). Sure active date is better, but let that coffee turn into active date. For example my coffee turned into one hour and a half long sex session on the back seat of my car.

Another thing. When they contact YOU, you gonna meet them and get laid. When YOU contact them, 50/50.

 

[Leopold]

But.... I just got the number yesterday? I cannot call that fast... it would come up as desperate. She doesn't have my number... I cut her of communication and didn't gave her my number so it starts to build up anxiety and whatnot...

I really cant take her to any place since she probably would want to drive herself there. I rather take an action date in a place Im familiar with since Im so new to the game in dates... I think I'll have more chances of having fun that just a plain convo with her. I like the coffee idea tho. Probably would buy some before the date so we can roller skate like freaks till we are making out badly on the middle of the stage while the crowd watches us

and... Im planning to take her out probably saturday in afternoon... I start college this week and have very important plans already made to make a date during the week. Either she takes it or not!!!

 

[Leopold]

Where is Iceberg??? Man come down and give me some words... I know you are the man on online dating. I started pretty much because of your posts.

Thanks in advance!!!

 

[backseatjuan]

Online woman has 50+ messages in her inbox every day. If you wait, 3 days, your chances only become slimmer and slimmer. In online world only a man who takes action NOW wins.

Know what those 50+ messages read? "Hi" each one, or "you have beautiful eyes" or something about her profile. It's boring.

What does an online woman want? To meet. NOW.

Remember my word, you won't meet that lady.


I've had online women who give me their number, and I'd call LATER, and they'd be like WTF, no I don't want to meet.

In fact I use online to setup a date, usually let me pick you up and we'll go to this place. They just give number and I use that to confirm.

IF A WOMAN ASKS YOU TO GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER, YOU WON'T HEAR FROM HER, AND IF YOU WILL, SHE'LL DIRECT YOU TO SOME PLACE AND STOOD YOU UP.


Are you desperate if you call her NOW? Not at all.

 

[Iceberg]

Where is Iceberg??? Man come down and give me some words... I know you are the man on online dating. I started pretty much because of your posts.

Thanks in advance!!!

backseatjuan is a troll. So just try not to pay attention to him.

I'm not sure what your exact question is. Would she drive 22 miles for a date? Sure, I guess. It's not THAT far.

Is dancing/rollerskating the best date for you? I prefer a drink or two at a bar. It's a relaxing environment where you actually get to talk to the girl, instead of being so heavily involved in the "action" part. But that's just my style...you gotta do your own thing.

 

[backseatjuan]

You're a troll yourself.

 

[SamTheHobit]

You're a troll yourself.

I agree.

On another note dont waste your time with online dating. @OP