If I feel insecure about the relationship right now, should I "deal with it"?

[GotED?]

Run. This woman is going to emotionally break you down if you don't because the force is strong in that one and your not even a padawan.

Seriously there is no hope for you. I know you want to stay with her because you you feel you have alot invested. Look at exodus. He was married and had to get back into the game. Now he is like mace windu.

You are one CRAZY MUTH-A-PHUCKER ThunderNuts.

If I didn't know any better and you were a woman, I phucken call the FBI on you for stalkin' my arse because I am a HB11.5.

But I love you Bro :flowers: - you make me laugh and that's sometimes more valuable than having a woman phuck up your insides at the end of the day down the line.

I am getting you some STEEL NUTS for Christmas, BPD-proof and Female YODA-proof and all, how about that.

He's moving up in the world, boys.


Exodus

 

[Thundernuts]

Lol I thougght you would get a kick out of that I saw the reference and ran with it.

Open have you read the DJ bible yet. If not I highly recommend it.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Only thing you should be doing with a 49 y.o. is banging the **** out of it whilst spinning girls your own age and kicking ass at life in general. You probably had something great going for you that drew her to you, so you can tap Into that again and find someone better suited and not in a position to make you her ***** which is totally what's gone on here. Your value is not in the responses of this woman.

 

[TheSlasher]

I smell troll. Or maybe some dude with issues beyond just his relationship with the said 49er. Correct me if I'm wrong.

 

[DonGorgon]

make sure you don't invest too much and don't get her pregnant and don't spend too much money and neon marry her... fact is 99% of the time females cheat and you never know then they randomly dump you when you leaSt expect ski i fyou ann arty and be with her make sure you always keep side options an depletes spinning...

 

[Sofomore]

Obvious troll is obviously trolling. What a waste of time to even respond to this sh!t.

 

[VikingKing]

Obvious troll is obviously trolling. What a waste of time to even respond to this sh!t.

Well you may be right about that.

However, the trolls will read our responses (becuase they do it for attention) and eventually they will start to see the truth in this site, unless they are completely deluded.

You can't unlearn things you learn, and only emotional creatures can deny the truth.

 

[Sofomore]

Chances are this dude won't listen. I've seen it 100 times on this site. What's the point in opening someone's eyes when they want to keep them shut.

 

[VikingKing]

Chances are this dude won't listen. I've seen it 100 times on this site. What's the point in opening someone's eyes when they want to keep them shut.

Some where down the line, next week, or in 25 years he will be in a situation and remember what he's read. Or he will just keep failing.

Or he could be a homo, in that case he wont need any of this.

 

[Pasternak]

You been OUT-GAMED, none of us can help you overcome the experience of a 50-phucken year old historical female fossil with the knowledge and wisdom of a FEMALE YODA :crazy:


Exodus

So far we got the quote of the year. Hilarious:wave:

 

[The_411]

Or should I talk to her about it? There is a lot of circulating information on the internet stemming not just from the PUA-esque community but also from other general areas of advisement regarding male behavior towards women...

I tend to live in an unfortunate state of other extreme happiness or extreme worry. Right now I'm in a slightly neurotic state and am finding myself to be insecure about the future of the relationship with my girlfriend. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it, but, according to advice I've read on the internet, I don't want to appear undeserving of her, and I don't want to lower my value in her eyes by doing so.

I am worried that eventually she will leave me after I make too many mistakes, and I also worry about why she hasn't already done so. Sometimes she can be very cruel in the things she says, like asking me when I'm going to move out or how much longer am I going to stay. And then later that night we cuddle up in bed and watch TV and cuddle in the morning after before we get up and go to work. And then the next day telling me I am her love. We have a very playful relationship at times but sometimes I cannot tell when she is just speaking out of frustration or playing with me. I can get insecure and reactive and start obsessive compulsively saying things like "Do you really want me to move out?" which I am sure is not attractive.

Please help.

She will leave you or least she will make your relationship a toxic nightmare. A relationship shouldn't be so stressfull. Unfortunately you may be caught in a cluster B web.

A woman of value who respects you isn't going to do the push pull dance because she knows if pulls that crap you will be gone in a heartbeat.

She knows she's got her hooks in when you ask an insecure question like do you really want me to move out because she knows you're going nowhere and she's got all the power in the relationship.