Or should I talk to her about it? There is a lot of circulating information on the internet stemming not just from the PUA-esque community but also from other general areas of advisement regarding male behavior towards women...
I tend to live in an unfortunate state of other extreme happiness or extreme worry. Right now I'm in a slightly neurotic state and am finding myself to be insecure about the future of the relationship with my girlfriend. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it, but, according to advice I've read on the internet, I don't want to appear undeserving of her, and I don't want to lower my value in her eyes by doing so.
I am worried that eventually she will leave me after I make too many mistakes, and I also worry about why she hasn't already done so. Sometimes she can be very cruel in the things she says, like asking me when I'm going to move out or how much longer am I going to stay. And then later that night we cuddle up in bed and watch TV and cuddle in the morning after before we get up and go to work. And then the next day telling me I am her love. We have a very playful relationship at times but sometimes I cannot tell when she is just speaking out of frustration or playing with me. I can get insecure and reactive and start obsessive compulsively saying things like "Do you really want me to move out?" which I am sure is not attractive.
Please help.
