"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If I could only read 3 books on dating/seduction/game which ones should they be?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
REVELATIONS-mystery and company part two and was free download
THE RULES OF THE GAME-great homework type assignments
I can say that it was the first book I ever read, and no book has even came close to helping me as much as this book. Lots of good information! It has it all! It's too awsome, you must read it!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Iguana said:
ready123
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I'd go with
RSD Foundations - best approach model out there for beginners, every possible contigency is addressed, plus a ton of inner game stuff too
Body Language project (only non-verbal comm book I've read that covers approach subcommunication and what type of body language = creepiness. most BL books just focus on IOI's, which is not enough)
between those two, that's enough to get started with
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
On Being a Man and Deep Inner Game by David Deangelo
Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.
Apply focus, intention, growth, development, and learning to your Character development first.
Who you are as a Man is much more important than what kind of 'tactic' you are 'performing' in a 'set' or on a 'target'.
If you're a piece of sh*t as a Man, then at the end of the day it doesn't matter WHAT you 'say' or what kind of 'routine' you are performing.
Understand how women communicate TO you, and WITH you. Observe them and learn the language of women.
Skill with women is essential to Masculinity.
But this skill must be developed through maturity and proper perspective.
And learn to have fun with women, and truly enjoy their company. Doing that is extremely helpful in your development as a masculine man. Learn how to enjoy being with a woman, rather than looking at her as a 'target' and a 'goal'.
Your objective is to be in the company of good women, and to be good at acquiring the company of good women.
And to be ok if you're not.
That is all.
If you hate who you are, then nothing you do will cover up what you HATE. If you cant stand to be with yourself, then you should be working on that, not a routine or the 'right thing to say' or 'the cube' , "October man" or whatever.
Learn how to be alone with yourself. Dont use this sh*t as a distraction from who you are, and the things you dont like about yourself.
The more you ignore it and push it down the stronger it becomes....
Work on your core beliefs and any behaviors that hold you back first. Make sure you are assessing and clearing out any self limiting , self sabotaging, self defeating behaviors first.
I've come to believe that all that other stuff is putting the carriage before the horse.
What most men need is a deep, "identity level change" (as they call it in RSD), not 'band aids'.
Dont go looking for Band Aids when you have a gaping head wound....
Understand?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
THE GAME - Introduces you completely the world of pickup artists and you can learn some lessons .
VENUSIAN ART HANDBOOK - How to attract and seduce women . M3 model . Very important to be PUA in my opinion .
BLUEPRINT DECODED - To get correct mindset .