"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If guys masturbate every day why not getting laid?

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Well I understand fat/ugly guys maybe its harder to get what they want?

But lots of normal looking guys out there. Surely most guys would smash a decent girl everyday if given chance? So why does it not happen?

I lived with 2 good looking fit guys no homo for a few months and hung with them for a year. ANd apart from time he had gf over I swear not only did he never get laid or do anything with girls he seemed to not even care lol.

Its common? Whats going on?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sometimes I would prefer my hand over all the hassle that comes with a woman. Some days I am just not in the mood for all the female bullsh|t. I just want to get off and go on about my day. Plus I can generally get myself off in 1/10th the time it takes a woman to do it on a good day.
 
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I suppose makes sense as said sometimes u can do it better yourself especially if the options aint there or appealing
 

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I grew lazy by masturbating, lost motivation to go get pvssy. Yeah I got off, it was good and because of that lost desire for pvssy. Why get it if I can orgasm with less effort.

Well, this worked out fine for a while. However it became pretty boring, when I can get it whenever I want it loses it's value. It works the way with me though that the longer I go without the stronger the desire becomes. So I challenged myself to only do it when the desire completely overcomes me, quantity went down and quality of my sessions improved drastically. Finally I challenged myself to only be satisfied by a real pvssy, instead of jerking off I had to force my desire to motivate finding a chick.

Why did I impose this limit on myself? Well, I just like challenge and overcoming them. Things have no value to me unless they're earned.

I would say they don't get laid because they're content and don't have an internal reason to change it. I had and so I changed to become content, I was bored and tired of my hand and the lack of any challenge. Not everyone requires difficulty to be satisfied, but I do.
 

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I grew lazy by masturbating, lost motivation to go get pvssy. Yeah I got off, it was good and because of that lost desire for pvssy. Why get it if I can orgasm with less effort.

Well, this worked out fine for a while. However it became pretty boring, when I can get it whenever I want it loses it's value. It works the way with me though that the longer I go without the stronger the desire becomes. So I challenged myself to only do it when the desire completely overcomes me, quantity went down and quality of my sessions improved drastically. Finally I challenged myself to only be satisfied by a real pvssy, instead of jerking off I had to force my desire to motivate finding a chick.

Why did I impose this limit on myself? Well, I just like challenge and overcoming them. Things have no value to me unless they're earned.

I would say they don't get laid because they're content and don't have an internal reason to change it. I had and so I changed to become content, I was bored and tired of my hand and the lack of any challenge. Not everyone requires difficulty to be satisfied, but I do.
You had to end this BS "reward system" of masterbating. If you eliminate it and need sex one way or another you will come across it. Masterbation changes the whole thing and rewards you for a lack of success.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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