"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If girls says bang her hard

zinc4

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I go soft immediately during sex. I have some problem where if I think the girl really wants or expects me to pound her hard it just makes me feel to much pressure and I go limp and opt to jerk myself or make her do it while kissing her. Anyone else have this problem? Maybe I watch porn too often but its like with real sex lately I'm very picky on what the girlbwants......especially if she doesn't have a banging body ...

Ironically, if the girl says too fast he more soft and gentle then I can and will pound her into submission.... But if they say bang me hard or even try to hint they want doggy style without me iniating it I go completely limp and have to stop. Lately its becoming a problem because I'm banging about two new girls every week at least and am trying to choose one for serious dating butbtge sex is suffering with some of them.

Meeting a girl tonight for the first time and already worried I will go soft if we get to sex which I'm sure we will....agreed to get hotel together. Another girl just left my place......went soft on her because she verbally said go really hard. This sucjs didnt used to have this problem.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she is signaling she's a big slut, so subconsciously your brain says "pull out bro", thus softness
 
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zinc4 said:
I go soft immediately during sex. I have some problem where if I think the girl really wants or expects me to pound her hard it just makes me feel to much pressure and I go limp and opt to jerk myself or make her do it while kissing her. Anyone else have this problem? Maybe I watch porn too often but its like with real sex lately I'm very picky on what the girlbwants......especially if she doesn't have a banging body ...

Ironically, if the girl says too fast he more soft and gentle then I can and will pound her into submission.... But if they say bang me hard or even try to hint they want doggy style without me iniating it I go completely limp and have to stop. Lately its becoming a problem because I'm banging about two new girls every week at least and am trying to choose one for serious dating butbtge sex is suffering with some of them.

Meeting a girl tonight for the first time and already worried I will go soft if we get to sex which I'm sure we will....agreed to get hotel together. Another girl just left my place......went soft on her because she verbally said go really hard. This sucjs didnt used to have this problem.

The problem is if you worry about too much what she wants your in woman-sphere. It's not a good place for your confidence.

You gotta hit it how you want to hit it, perhaps use some guidance from her, but you have to have confidence in yourself. You cannot focus only on what they want or your c0ck will have problems.

Ask the guys. And I wish I didn't know.
 
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zinc4 said:
I go soft immediately during sex. I have some problem where if I think the girl really wants or expects me to pound her hard it just makes me feel to much pressure and I go limp and opt to jerk myself or make her do it while kissing her. Anyone else have this problem? Maybe I watch porn too often but its like with real sex lately I'm very picky on what the girlbwants......especially if she doesn't have a banging body ...

Ironically, if the girl says too fast he more soft and gentle then I can and will pound her into submission.... But if they say bang me hard or even try to hint they want doggy style without me iniating it I go completely limp and have to stop. Lately its becoming a problem because I'm banging about two new girls every week at least and am trying to choose one for serious dating butbtge sex is suffering with some of them.

Meeting a girl tonight for the first time and already worried I will go soft if we get to sex which I'm sure we will....agreed to get hotel together. Another girl just left my place......went soft on her because she verbally said go really hard. This sucjs didnt used to have this problem.
Smash them all, bang them hard as hell until they tell you to please calm down. That way you don't have to feel that you aren't getting it right.
 

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donking said:
she is signaling she's a big slut, so subconsciously your brain says "pull out bro", thus softness
LMAO

But in all seriousness, i get something similar sometimes, except i immediately start to worry that i'm going to finish way too quick. And if i start to fvck her hard, i usually do finish quick

Something i've realized: it's your d!ck. You're in charge. It's hot when a girl says this but you're not obligated to. Because of the pressure it can place on me, i like to flip it around and start to fvck her nice and slow and say "nope, i'll fvck you whichever way i feel like". You can also use this as an opportunity to tease her like crazy. You can take your c0ck out and make her beg you for it, etc. etc.

Honestly it's all in your head. I had an issue with staying hard for the longest time...but after a while i just learned not to place so much pressure on myself and it went away
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No I don't have that problem but I enjoy sluts so there's that. You probably just prefer to bed classy girls
 

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No I prefer sluts....I just don't like being expected to have to pound them hard....I prefer kissing and cumming on their faces or in their mouths using my hands doing it the way I like and if I happen to be in the mood to pound hard to do it only then.....basically I like no expectations nor effort. I prefer when they say not too fast then I can have no.pressure and pound away at will if I so desire.
 
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The hardest I ever banged one, I was standing up, her bent over the bed and/or on her knees on the edge of the bed. I had Soooo much leverage and I do not think that it could be possible to bang a woman any harder. She was a little overweight too. I enjoyed that. She did too. It was just massive destruction.
 
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