"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If girls are the only purpose then your probley not gonna score.

SinRod

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Been reading on here a lot and there are a lot of guys making women their main hobby. Like they do not have nothing better to do. :nono:

You guys need to listen to me, I get all kinds of attention from girls

STOP TRYING SO HARD DUMMY.

Guys you have to act like you could care less about some girls so that they can wonder about you. Don’t you guys realize that a pretty girl is used to being pampared? Now a man like me comes along, she wonders, why does’nt he talk to me, what is wrong with him.? See. Now they have to wonder about you. which means they get loose between the thighs.

Some guys here seem to be act horny and ask how to get attention from fine girls that’s not good. Make them come to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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Guys you have to act like you could care less about some girls so that they can wonder about you.
no.. you have to actually care less. which is harder, alot harder to do than Acting like you do, which is where alot of guys here fail
 

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I agree 100%. But lets be realistic here, not everyone is going to get it, not everyone is meant to. It just isn't natural, no matter how truthful it is. You can tell people all you want what they need to be successful, how to go about doing things the right way, etc. but then you end up with a world where the richest 1% dominate everyone else.

I would be more concerned if everyone "got it", cause that just doesn't happen in the real world. Not everyone gets rich or famous. But I would sincerely like everyone here to be optimally successful cause its hard to see a guy frustrated by *****. Lets keep preaching, at the very least some people are bound to get it...
 

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But I would sincerely like everyone here to be optimally successful cause its hard to see a guy frustrated by *****. Lets keep preaching, at the very least some people are bound to get it...
Now THAT's a great attitude to have.
 
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