"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If females are HARDWIRED to be attracted to certain traits.... what about Bisexual/Le

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If females are HARDWIRED to be attracted to certain traits.... what about Bisexual and lesbians???

Seriously, alot of Neil Strauss and Mystery's concepts are derived from evolution and how women are hard wired a certain way. Are bisexual and lesbian girls an exception to the rules?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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homosexuals are a strange mix of BOTH sexes, but they can very

i work with a gay guy (nice guy) he is not a "guy" and can talk 'easily' to women like he was a woman, but hes not got the irratrating traits that women have....its quite a strange mix...!

i think yuo do get homo animals - Swans have been known to be homo... 2 males building a nest (true!)
 

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I have a couple of cousins who are gay and lesbian and they have pretty much been gay since we were kids. It was obvious. My coworker says the same about his lesbian sister...she was always a tomboy from an early age. But I think there are also other factors involved. Such as,

1. Childhood abuse
2. Sh1tty home & dating life
3. Butt ass ugly (knew a lot of ugly chics who ended up dyking)

I think some are born that way and some choose that lifestyle.

As for hot girls in the club. I think they know it turns men on. Which is why you get the girl on girl makeout. They are doing it for the attention. And we know how women love attention.

As for biological/evolutionary reasons...why do you think you always see a cute lesbian girl with some big butch ass chic? They are still attracted to the same traits...regardless of the plumbing. Someone always has to be the dominate mate. My lesbian cousin dress and acts just like a guy. She's the man in all of her relationships.
 

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There's been some theorizing about homosexuality being evolutionary population control.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In my psychology class the other day we were talking about this....like someone said above, it is simply a mutation, and one is actually "hardwired" so yes people are born gay, and straight, and they can't change how they feel about it.
 

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for me gay guys are just fakers....i mean seriously i dont see a way how i would like a guy......ew hell no.......i only like girls
 

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For the REAL lesbians (i.e. not the fakes and attention wh0res and some of the lipstick lesbians) it is NOT a choice. BTW, real lesbians tend to be butch dykes and not the hotties you see in porn.

They are most likely born that way, the same way homosexual men are born that way. However, the cause is not necessarily genetic.

Remember, there are nine months between conception and birth and a lot can happen in this time. It seems that something takes place while the baby is in the uterus which causes the development of homosexuals. This could involve hormonal balances.
 

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MR MIZUN0 said:
In my psychology class the other day we were talking about this....like someone said above, it is simply a mutation, and one is actually "hardwired" so yes people are born gay, and straight, and they can't change how they feel about it.
Pure American B.S. Plenty of people change. Anne Heche? She changed.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Pure American B.S.
What the fuck is your deal, kid? You come to an American website to...bash America constantly. Are you retarded or is your whole personality a pathetic attempt at trolling? If you hate America so much, why are you not starting threads and offering your bullshit advice for women on your shitty little Ukranian seduction boards?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just a Shot Away said:
What the fuck is your deal, kid? You come to an American website to...bash America constantly. Are you retarded or is your whole personality a pathetic attempt at trolling? If you hate America so much, why aren't you not starting threads and offering your bullshit advice for women on your shitty little Ukranian seduction boards?
im not even american and he annoys me...
 

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There is some research to suggest that homosexuality is due to hormonal imbalance in utero. Much of our development is dependent on the combination of hormones we are exposed to and the duration of time we're subject to each hormone. In certain animal experiments, by changing the hormone

Wikipedia has a decent article on it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation
 

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I think women are all different just like all men are different and can find different things attractive.

I believe that a lot of women can find certain traits attractive, but saying that all women are "hard wired" for a few select traits really insults women and human variety at the same time. If that were the case then all the wimpy guys would have died out by now. and let's face it, some girls do like wimpy/emo/ drama queen guys.

we are not in the jungle, their is more to what people find sexy than evolutionary and survival reasons.

That being said, a homosexual woman is still a woman, but she just happens to find other women attractive too. Nothing to do with dominance or whatever
 
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