"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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if distance stops a relationship, can it restart?

Big Eee Zee

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I know every specific relationship is different, but in general if a relationship is stopped because of distance can it restart later? Me and my girl are going to seperate colleges and I just wanted to know if its possible to get back together next summer or something?

I realize that she will probably find someone else, and that I will probably find someone else too, but on the off chance that we're both single next summer you think theres a possibility?

THat is, assuming she doesn't become a pothead/raging alcoholic/slut/fattie when she goes to school.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What kind of a question is this man fu*k. You sound like a b*tch. If you want to get back with her then try. If it doesn’t work move on.

Shezzler is right this forum is becoming a joke witht all these repetative AFC posts.

Ninja out
 

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watch yourself, man. I ain't the one dycking around on this site all day because hes waiting for his g/f to give him some action. friggin ass.


this isn't an AFC question. This is legit. T'm trying to set up a booty call in advance for most of next summer. That way after I'm burned out from school and finals I don't have to go work for it, it'll be waiting for me. And this girl knows how to work it. I was just wondering if it's possible, or once its over its over.
 

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Actually i'm with ninja on this one. This post is classified as a "do or die." You either do something about it, which anything we say won't exactly help your situation out or you just let the relationship die and move on. The latter seems most effective in my opinion, but that's just me.

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Edit: It's possible if YOU make it possible!
 

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yeah, I probably oughta let things go. It's hard, I do genuinely care about her. But then again, I'm going to college. And there I'll probably meet all sorts of chicks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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