"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if distance stops a relationship, can it restart?

Big Eee Zee

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I know every specific relationship is different, but in general if a relationship is stopped because of distance can it restart later? Me and my girl are going to seperate colleges and I just wanted to know if its possible to get back together next summer or something?

I realize that she will probably find someone else, and that I will probably find someone else too, but on the off chance that we're both single next summer you think theres a possibility?

THat is, assuming she doesn't become a pothead/raging alcoholic/slut/fattie when she goes to school.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What kind of a question is this man fu*k. You sound like a b*tch. If you want to get back with her then try. If it doesn’t work move on.

Shezzler is right this forum is becoming a joke witht all these repetative AFC posts.

Ninja out
 

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watch yourself, man. I ain't the one dycking around on this site all day because hes waiting for his g/f to give him some action. friggin ass.


this isn't an AFC question. This is legit. T'm trying to set up a booty call in advance for most of next summer. That way after I'm burned out from school and finals I don't have to go work for it, it'll be waiting for me. And this girl knows how to work it. I was just wondering if it's possible, or once its over its over.
 

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Actually i'm with ninja on this one. This post is classified as a "do or die." You either do something about it, which anything we say won't exactly help your situation out or you just let the relationship die and move on. The latter seems most effective in my opinion, but that's just me.

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Edit: It's possible if YOU make it possible!
 

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yeah, I probably oughta let things go. It's hard, I do genuinely care about her. But then again, I'm going to college. And there I'll probably meet all sorts of chicks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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