"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If a woman makes a big deal, tell her to chill out or empathize?

ThisNThat

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There was this woman I was getting to know that I met in real life, and since Halloween was coming up...I posted one of those videos of a picture that changes from a woman to a monster and back again. Pretty cool effect.

I shared it with her and she freaked out, said it was the most EVIL thing she ever saw, and asked that I take it down.

I did take it down, but...I said, "Seriously, you need to chill out as it's just a decorative Halloween piece that had a cool effect."

But apparently, it "triggered" her (that's the term is it?) due to some past issue with "evil" or something to that effect.

Sometimes I feel like saying, "Take a chill pill" or be apologetic about it. Or both.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wolf

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If a Woman complains that you did something to trigger her... then you can bet your bottom dollar that it won't be long before 'you' trigger her..

AVOID AVOID AVOID AVOID...
 

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if she actually used the word "triggered" but isn't like a former soldier or a rape victim or something that's grounds for dumping right there
 

ubercat

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Mate by our age most women that aren't wifed up have more baggage than Gucci.
 
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