"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If a guy is short, skinny (BC of cancer), and broke he can't get the girls.

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I honestly believe NO amount of PUA can help certain people. There isn't somebody out there for everybody and some guys will always rank in as Omega. Let's be real, no guy wants to date 3-5s. If a guy has reached the level of forced loneliness it's better to suicide. No woman will go for the low ranked 5'5 cancer broke omega male.

So his choices are:

A.) A sex worker for the rest of his life.

or

B.) Fall into depression possibly becoming some lonely crazy rapist.


Simply realizing these cold harsh facts of life pisses me off. That burning hatred I have for women will never disappear. We males who invented everything, shaped the world, built houses, still have to show even more value to these good for nothing women who haven't don't much besides give birth and screw America over with feminism.

I'm really starting to question female nature. (BTW if you're an ALpha please don't give me some BS speech. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TRUE SUFFERING IS. YOU HAVE NOT AND WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT'S IT LIKE TO BE AN OMEGA-MALE. So don't even start that never-give-up-BS!)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have a friend who has a growth deficiency and was born slightly deformed, looked liked he has autism but is very smart. he had the same view of women as you do and showed lots of spitefulness. you attract what you give off, he gave off too much negative vibes. once he changed the way he thought, things started to turn around for him. I'm not saying he f*** the hottest babes but he does have a couple more female friends that i find wow! but with that he jus brings up more way chances of actually finding someone who might be more nurturing, helpful, and vibe really well with him. The one thing he learned and tuaght me is that nobody cares if your miserable.
 

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LuvisDaGame said:
i have a friend who has a growth deficiency and was born slightly deformed, looked liked he has autism but is very smart. he had the same view of women as you do and showed lots of spitefulness. you attract what you give off, he gave off too much negative vibes. once he changed the way he thought, things started to turn around for him. I'm not saying he f*** the hottest babes but he does have a couple more female friends that i find wow! but with that he jus brings up more way chances of actually finding someone who might be more nurturing, helpful, and vibe really well with him. The one thing he learned and tuaght me is that nobody cares if your miserable.
Men turn bitter because of women so don't even try to blame it on vibes. I was once the most happiest guy around until year after year women murder you slowly.

Your friend is NOT banging 8-10s. They are his friends because they petty him most likely. These girls are not having sex with him I bet.

What I've learned is that society doesn't give a damn about men. If a girl is deformed or got cancer she can easily find sex. If women are sad and aone there is always somebody there for their lazy asses. As men nobody gives a damn so why should I give a damn about women? Maybe I should treat them like crap. I mean if society and women don't care for us why not give into that dark side of our instincts. I sure as hell got nothing to lose.
 

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Link said:
I honestly believe NO amount of PUA can help certain people. There isn't somebody out there for everybody and some guys will always rank in as Omega. Let's be real, no guy wants to date 3-5s. If a guy has reached the level of forced loneliness it's better to suicide.
nothing justifies suicide. Not a single "failure" in the dating world justifies suicide, not a single failure elsewhere justifies that either.

and for the rest: sex and dating are:

1° overrated
2° are not the main reason to live for
3° you can be happy without romance and sticking girls with your stick

concentrate on your life and improve it, become wealthy, successful and girls will naturally want to suck your ****.
 

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Focus on healing yourself. I don't believe in conventional treatments. That's what hurt you. Cancer is a normal immune response to a problem that doctors never want to address. You need to go on a fasting and detox diet. Please watch "Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead" on Netflix. Good luck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Acq said:
nothing justifies suicide.
True. Everyone thinks about it but watch out for the doctors who will try and force meds on you if you admit this.

It's the ultimate cowardly act as you force whoever actually loved you to suffer ten times what you were going through.

Remember: you didn't create yourself and you have no right to destroy yourself. You don't know about the true ramifications. You might wake up after like in the Matrix when Neo took the red pill - and realize you lost.

Depression is a normal response to needing environmental change. Feel your own pain. Prozac increases the risk. It makes people not care about anything (like their problems, mass murder, etc). It's mostly Sodium Fluoride (rat poison) promoted since Nazi Germany to make people docile.

Also, you might end up like the guy who put a gun to his temple and shot both his eyes out and lived.
 

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Why does money matter towards getting girls? This has never made sense to me.

Skinny? Just bulk up.

I'm sure I've heard of tons of short guys pulling tons of girls.

Being broke and skinny are things to overcome; not permanent shortcomings.
 

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That's the harshness of life. It's true, someone in that position is not going to get ladies all over him, through no fault of his own. But then we're talking about reality, where cancer targets innocent people, babies are born with aids and kids are borning into wargrounds and forced to witness bloodshed from an early age.

Some people take comfort that God causes all this and it's some kind of test, but the truth is the universe does not have a conscience.

Women aren't to blame for this. Most guys wouldn't be interested in a woman in this same position.
 

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Money is a sign of power/ambition. Also brings confidence. That's why girls are attracted to money. You don't even have to spend a dime on the female.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Money is a sign of power/ambition. Also brings confidence. That's why girls are attracted to money. You don't even have to spend a dime on the female.
First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Try and bulk up. Have an ambition so you can be motivated for something and work for it.

Work on and improve on yourself. I've seen many short and skinny guys get girls. The world is what you view of it. Have the intent on improving yourself.

As some member stated, being skinny and broke is just a thing to overcome. Good luck.
 

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even being short can be fixed nowadays.

Play the same cards those *****s play. Buy some lifts or elevator shoes and be 5,8 to 5,9!

a ton of hollywood actors do it so why the hell not.

Cancer is your only worry, beat that and I guarantee you, everything else will seem dumb.
 

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Link said:
I honestly believe NO amount of PUA can help certain people. There isn't somebody out there for everybody and some guys will always rank in as Omega. Let's be real, no guy wants to date 3-5s. If a guy has reached the level of forced loneliness it's better to suicide. No woman will go for the low ranked 5'5 cancer broke omega male.

So his choices are:

A.) A sex worker for the rest of his life.

or

B.) Fall into depression possibly becoming some lonely crazy rapist.


Simply realizing these cold harsh facts of life pisses me off. That burning hatred I have for women will never disappear. We males who invented everything, shaped the world, built houses, still have to show even more value to these good for nothing women who haven't don't much besides give birth and screw America over with feminism.

I'm really starting to question female nature. (BTW if you're an ALpha please don't give me some BS speech. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TRUE SUFFERING IS. YOU HAVE NOT AND WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT'S IT LIKE TO BE AN OMEGA-MALE. So don't even start that never-give-up-BS!)

Link, if you have cancer the last thing on your mind should be women.

My condolences on what you are going through but youve got bigger fish to fry than the ladies right now if true.

PS. I am a guy you dont want to here some bs speech from, however I will speak, I was born with many health problems and defects that I worked my entire life to overcome and I have with alot of hard work and good people skills.
 

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+1 on the no thinking about chics while you have cancer thing. Your life is yours now, you don't live to entertain females. Hate comes from a failure to understand. You don't understand women, therefore you hate them--pretty common actually.

First things first, concentrate on your own life. If you start fighting to improve yourself you just might find that some women are attracted to men who do things like that. Hint: strippers love guys with terminal illnesses/ obvious physical deficiencies.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Link said:
We males who invented everything, shaped the world, built houses, still have to show even more value to these good for nothing women who haven't don't much besides give birth and screw America over with feminism.
What do you mean "We males"?

Did you build anything worthwhile? Did you shape the world? Did you create something of value?

Nah, I see mostly complaints.

So, yes, I agree. Guys like you don't deserve anything, because they don't do anything. I know enough people who have had it way worse than you (cancer included) and have gotten over it. Nothing pisses THEM off more than people who constantly whine about their misfortune.

So congrats, you're a douchebag, or at least a troll.
 

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I'm only 5 ft 7 (though I am fairly muscular), and I have never noticed girls passing me over because of height, unless they are more than a few inches taller than me. AFC behavior, on the other hand, is a very different story.


You didn't make s-hit. Go build a society yourself, then claim superiority over women. That entitled bullcrap is best left to genders who have boobies to barter with. Men have to succeed, even if they succeed on different terms than the norm.
 
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