"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If a girl that is interrested in you...

Groovy

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If a girl you know it's interrested in you (gives Ioi's, heavy kino, laughs at your not so good jokes, etc.) is flirting with you in front of her friends, and you know you can so have her there, but everyone is watching!

What would be the way to handle this? Take her to somewhere isolated or is it ok just to kiss her with everyone watching? Or leave it like it is and when you have the chance you...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MotownMack

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Yeah, don't kiss her in front of everyone. If she's that into you, it should be easy for you to extract her from the group.
 
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