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If a girl says "B-Bye", is it over?

When a girl says B-Bye, what does it mean?

  • It's nothing to worry about. It's just her choice of wording.

    Votes: 2 25.0%

  • It's possibly a sign of low interest. Freudian slip?

    Votes: 3 37.5%

  • It's definitely a bad sign. B-bye is a slap in the face.

    Votes: 3 37.5%
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bigneil

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This has always been a pet peeve of mine, when girls say "B-Bye". I'm pretty sure Juliet never said "B-bye" to Romeo as he was leaving.

For example, you're talking at a cashier and you think she might like you, but she says "B-bye" as you walk away - is it a subtle stab in the back? I'm from the northeast where it's considered cheezy, now living in the south where a lot of people say it. But maybe in some states it doesn't mean anything?

Time to get a consensus on this.
 

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Desdinova

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Huh? In what context? If she's saying it at the end of the day, maybe she's going to bed or has 5hit to do. If she does it at the end of the date, maybe she's just saying 'goodnight'.

If she said "I'm tired of your 5hit" before her "B-bye", then she dumped your ass.
 
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I've had girls say "yeah we can do that" when I suggest that we go out sometime only to never hear from them. I've also had girls makeout with me on dates and stick around for a good while at the end of the date, not in any rush to leave, only to never see or hear from them again. So who really knows when they're interested or not. Lately the ones that don't seem interested really are and the ones that show all the "classic signals" really arent.
 
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Yeah, I think it's condescending on a subtle level. She's using "baby talk" on you.

Think when mommy or daddy made you say "Buh-bye."

(I never understood why they teach baby talk anyway, because they have to unlearn it in a few years. Teach the child proper english from the start, just keep it very simple. But that's another thread lol.)

Anyway, Condescending = not attracted or no longer attracted

She may or may not be consciously aware of it, but yeah, it strongly suggests friendzone at best.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think youre over analyzing this.. its not really her "baby talking you" i think its more or less her trying to be "cutesy" and play the innocent role, if anything. to me, its just another word. body language will tell you the truth.
 
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