"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If a girl mentions her boyfriend, does that mean she wants you to back off?

benogan

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It's a **** test man. When a girl would tell me she has a boyfriend a lot of times I'd say. "woah... wait did you think I was hitting on you? haha" and they'd think of **** this guy isn't interested me like that.... then they wonder why. It's just her way of gaurding herself against betas that will back off when she says that. Another great line is from Sasha daygame. He would say is he a proper/real boyfriend? and then would say "whats his name?" if they paused hed say "ohhh wow he's not even real you paused"

otherwise he'd say "oh well what if I was 100% better in bed"

the only thing you can do in that case is keep going, act unaffected. Thats how girls get most BETAs to back off.

You are better than her boyfriend. You are an alpha male. You are the highest value male she can be with. Stopping would be a disservice to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sylvester the cat

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i remember meeting a girl who always referred to her boyfriend as 'my boyfriend' and never by name.

the moment she started referring to him by name instead of 'my boyfriend' was when i knew she was open to offers.
 

teddy

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sylvester the cat said:
i remember meeting a girl who always referred to her boyfriend as 'my boyfriend' and never by name.

the moment she started referring to him by name instead of 'my boyfriend' was when i knew she was open to offers.
Really? I was thinking if that happened, it'd be more of a sign you're in the friend zone, since she's more comfortable saying his name around you.
 

sylvester the cat

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teddy said:
Really? I was thinking if that happened, it'd be more of a sign you're in the friend zone, since she's more comfortable saying his name around you.
Well, put it this way - he wasn't her boyfriend for much longer after.
 
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