"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If a girl finally calls/message back, what should I do?

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Since I have a problem with the girl I like (see my other post "Need some..." I would like some comfort from another girls company.

So tonight this girl messaged me that I have been talking on the phone to, had lunch with twice (I paid the first time, the second time we split since she also had her friend with her).

She messeged "Sorry that I haven't kept in touch! Are you going out to the new club opening tonight?"

As she said, last time I sent a mobile message to her she didn't reply. That was a week ago.

What should I do? My heart says nothing, since I'm not that interested in her. My brain says, **** that idiot, who does she think she are?".

Besides, she had been difficult keeping in touch before.

Any standard advice? When I think of it, there's probably no standard advice to this question. If I'm not interested, don't message back, if I'm interested pretend like nothing or "neg" her by saying something like, "hey, you seem like an ashole, but you are pretty nice anyway, if you behave this time we could meet up before going out tonight. I'm gonna be at the .... bar to take a drink before I go to the club".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nothing's a little better than not answering a text message..


call her later... if she asks about the text message be like "my text message box was full maybe i didn't recieve it"
 
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Well, do you like her? Like you say, you could say something like "I'm meeting a friend tonight, but I'll be at [bar] tomorrow night." Then try to meet other women there and if she shows great.
 
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Two good answers.

To be frank, I am in the middle of moving right now so I won't have any time (unless it's very important) until this weekend.

So I might say, "I'm busy until the weekend but then you can meet me at..."

Or I'll just say don't reply at all.

For now I won't reply. Maybe I reply in two days or so with the second one. Maybe that will suit her well ;)

I really hate mind games even though I play them really well. Can't people act and show their true emotions? What a world....
 
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