NewAndImproved
Senior Don Juan
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It's funny how when we're interested in a girl, we start to make excuses when she doesn't do something we expect her to do.
For example, initiating texts. If a girl doesn't initiate at least some of the time, her interest isn't high. Sometimes we try to explain the situation away, "she's playing hard to get," "she has a rule that she won't initiate..."
This MIGHT be true but more often than not it's not true. Same goes for phone calls or anything else. Girls generally have more experience with these things than we do... They've been at it longer, especially the hot ones. They know what they're doing, be assured of that.
They know how to and have initiated texts in the past.
They know how to and have initiated phone calls in the past.
They know how to and have had sex on the first date in the past.
They're just not doing it with you.
I can't tell you how many times I've been like "oh this girl just won't initiate... it's what she does" only to not answer one of her texts, be less needy, go NC and have the girl double, triple text and break the very ironclad rules I ascribed to her.
If she's not doing something, it's not that she's incapable, it's that her interest level is low with you.
For example, initiating texts. If a girl doesn't initiate at least some of the time, her interest isn't high. Sometimes we try to explain the situation away, "she's playing hard to get," "she has a rule that she won't initiate..."
This MIGHT be true but more often than not it's not true. Same goes for phone calls or anything else. Girls generally have more experience with these things than we do... They've been at it longer, especially the hot ones. They know what they're doing, be assured of that.
They know how to and have initiated texts in the past.
They know how to and have initiated phone calls in the past.
They know how to and have had sex on the first date in the past.
They're just not doing it with you.
I can't tell you how many times I've been like "oh this girl just won't initiate... it's what she does" only to not answer one of her texts, be less needy, go NC and have the girl double, triple text and break the very ironclad rules I ascribed to her.
If she's not doing something, it's not that she's incapable, it's that her interest level is low with you.
