If a girl doesn't show interest right away...

[Reyaj]

NEXT HER!

All girls I end up hooking up with that fall head over heels for me show interest right away and we get physical soon. The idea of slow playing or courting is ridiculous. I used to think like this but my experience as shown otherwise.

 

[abe0]

Agree...I have had little (no) success if there is no show of interest early on. It is a waste of time to pursue if you don't feel after the first meeting. Every time I have gone out on a second date knowingly that there was no feeling of chemistry the first time...it has been a waste of time and money.
Abe

 

[tryst type]

Yup, I used to fall into the trap of a girl stringing me along or showing slight interest then nothing and I'd feel I just had to be funnier/try harder/impress her. No good.

The easiest and most fulfilling hook ups are with the girls that instantly click, you feel it too.

 

[DMSR76]

This is very true, OP. There are many who believe there's a such thing as moving too fast.... Total BS in my opinion. My best relationships were the ones that got physical quickly. That does necessarily mean a man should f-close every first date, but it does mean that there should be physicality of some sort early during the interaction.