"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If a chick, asks for your # and you exchange, should you expect her to call YOU?

Poonani Maker

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I'm on my second week after exchanging #s with a chick who had high interest when I left out of her car. I DID NOT KISS HER, which given her nervous quivering voice in the car, she might have expected me to, especially after we'd hugged and I got a really good feel of her tits.

Was the fact that I did not kiss her, my fatal mistake? Do you think that she has asked her girlfriends, mom, brother, co-workers, etc etc if she should call me and they said, "NO!" so she hasn't? To me, she's just a plate, a distant plate. We live almost 80 miles from each other. She has a good job in accounting. I have a good job also. We're probably about equal, with the edge going to me, jobwise. She is a little plump in the butt. She has an unattractive mole over her eye, thus a 6 at best.

She's a sweet gal, but I can do better. I should continue not to call her right? I mean, this weeks almost over, BUT I have plans near where she lives this weekend and could easily ask her to come along and meet me where I'll be with friends if she wants.

She really needs sex. Looks like she hasn't had it in a while, if ever, and she's 29. She may have lied to me already once.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joser590

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If you are questioning all this and not really attracted to her than why bother in the first place. Don't you think it would be a waste of gas and money. If your just trying to get into her pants and know you can than by all means go for it but if you have to put time and effort into it than don't. It would be a big waste of time on your part.
 

WhtRbt

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The man always calls, the woman doesn't have to. It's nice when she does, but not necessary.
 
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