Mr.Fantastic
Don Juan
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Many of my 'friends' are afc's with a vengeance. It is only when you improve your life and move out of the pathetic insecure afc rut that these nerdy bitter friends of yours will present their true face and show that they are not friends at all.
My advice to all aspiring DJ's who wish to improve their lives and general confidence is this: DROP ALL TOXIC PEOPLE.
You know the type, the friends that never get girls, who look at other guys with girls and go 'what an idiot, how did he get her?' the guys that stand in bars up against the wall on 'death row' and go home bitter at the end of the night. We all know or have known these people and let me tell you something, they are not your friends, they just see you as emotional support that makes them feel better about their shiitty situation. If you develop admirable characteristics they will turn on you in the way that they have turned against other successful people. They will single you out and make you feel bad for being better, and you have two choices here - you can leave them in their pit of insecurity...or you can revert back to how you once was - sad, insecure, cowardly and alone.
Let me give you an example that has led me to reaffirm this statement that should be one of the first things you do when improving your life: DROP ALL TOXIC PEOPLE.
A group of drinking buddies of mine (known from school) who I kind of enjoyed hanging with in my AFC days (because I was afc and had few friends) have recently singled me out as different because I now have a girlfriend. Suddenly I am not the boozy, obnoxious creep I once was (because I have improved, and because I am in the company of a girl) and my 'friends' cannot get over it. Its like they take it personally that I have a girlfriend, almost like they are jealous - they act like a bunch of girls.
It';s not like I have just dropped them either, I let them meet my girl several times - all of which was a mistake. NEVER LET AFC FRIENDS MEET YOUR GIRL.
The few times they have met her they have managed to grab her ass, call her a ***** and a *****, act like drunken idiots and generally be obnoxious. This has led my girl to be physically repulsed by them, as am I.
I no longer want to be around them because I have moved on, and they know it. I now get drunken voice mails from them saying 'can we speak to the REAL 'Mr.fantastic' please?' they now cant just use my name, they say that I am the NEW 'Mr.fantastic, and they want the OLD Mr.fantasstic back, the REAL me.
I get facebook messages tagging photos of me out with my girl as 'THE NEW MR.FANTASTIC' and messages saying about how im all different now i have a girl. Its like they are personally offended that I have a girlfriend. They make me want to be sick.
I have gone off into the specific reasons for me reaffirming this, but it is vital to your survival as a strong male: DROP ALL TOXIC PEOPLE - THEY WILL BRING YOU DOWN WITH THEM. IF THE SHIP IS SINKING THEY WILL HOLD ONTO YOU AND MAKE SURE YOU END UP DROWNING.
My advice to all aspiring DJ's who wish to improve their lives and general confidence is this: DROP ALL TOXIC PEOPLE.
You know the type, the friends that never get girls, who look at other guys with girls and go 'what an idiot, how did he get her?' the guys that stand in bars up against the wall on 'death row' and go home bitter at the end of the night. We all know or have known these people and let me tell you something, they are not your friends, they just see you as emotional support that makes them feel better about their shiitty situation. If you develop admirable characteristics they will turn on you in the way that they have turned against other successful people. They will single you out and make you feel bad for being better, and you have two choices here - you can leave them in their pit of insecurity...or you can revert back to how you once was - sad, insecure, cowardly and alone.
Let me give you an example that has led me to reaffirm this statement that should be one of the first things you do when improving your life: DROP ALL TOXIC PEOPLE.
A group of drinking buddies of mine (known from school) who I kind of enjoyed hanging with in my AFC days (because I was afc and had few friends) have recently singled me out as different because I now have a girlfriend. Suddenly I am not the boozy, obnoxious creep I once was (because I have improved, and because I am in the company of a girl) and my 'friends' cannot get over it. Its like they take it personally that I have a girlfriend, almost like they are jealous - they act like a bunch of girls.
It';s not like I have just dropped them either, I let them meet my girl several times - all of which was a mistake. NEVER LET AFC FRIENDS MEET YOUR GIRL.
The few times they have met her they have managed to grab her ass, call her a ***** and a *****, act like drunken idiots and generally be obnoxious. This has led my girl to be physically repulsed by them, as am I.
I no longer want to be around them because I have moved on, and they know it. I now get drunken voice mails from them saying 'can we speak to the REAL 'Mr.fantastic' please?' they now cant just use my name, they say that I am the NEW 'Mr.fantastic, and they want the OLD Mr.fantasstic back, the REAL me.
I get facebook messages tagging photos of me out with my girl as 'THE NEW MR.FANTASTIC' and messages saying about how im all different now i have a girl. Its like they are personally offended that I have a girlfriend. They make me want to be sick.
I have gone off into the specific reasons for me reaffirming this, but it is vital to your survival as a strong male: DROP ALL TOXIC PEOPLE - THEY WILL BRING YOU DOWN WITH THEM. IF THE SHIP IS SINKING THEY WILL HOLD ONTO YOU AND MAKE SURE YOU END UP DROWNING.