Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ideas Picking up chicks while you're in your car ..

salthepal

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This has been bugging me for the last 2 days ..

I was driving and saw a great chick ... I'll give her a 10 just for wearing a pink midriff baring shirt and low riding jeans (where i live, that's VERY revealing) ..

now every single car in the street was slowing down beside her and calling out to her ... I too tried to get her ride with me, but no use, try as i might she wouldn't ..

I drove aroung probably 5 times, and each time slowed down near her and invited her for a ride, but NOTHING ...

Now sitting and wondering about this, I still haven't come up with the right thing to say to make stranger girls in the street jump into the car with me .. As you see it's not a mindset problem , it's a technique problem ..

I especially seek advice from South American DJs, particularly those who have done what I'm trying to do ...
Mideastern girls think more like South American girls, that's why I asked for advice from guys living in South America, but Everybody else's advice is welcome .....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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posted in the wrong forum

I'm sorry .... Posted in the wrong forum ...

MODS : Please move this thread to the discussion forum .....

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Well, lemme see. You slowed down near her and asked her to jump into a stranger's car for a ride, she refused, then you drove around and did it 4 more times? AND everyone else was doing it? Gee, how could she say no? :rolleyes:
 

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That's a tough situation. The idea of getting into a car with a total stranger isn't too appealing. Even if you have a great line, you're friendly, C/F, whatever, you could be some crazy rapist who sits around thinking of good lines. If you parked and approached her on foot, you'd have a much better chance of establishing something.
 

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Re: posted in the wrong forum

Originally posted by salthepal
I'm sorry .... Posted in the wrong forum ...

MODS : Please move this thread to the discussion forum .....

thanks
Moved to Don Juan Discussion.

That'll be a $5 service charge. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The only chick you can pick up with your car is a prostitude. Otherwise, you have to know the girl in order to pick her up.
 

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very hard. i've tried many times, not one suceeded, at least as far as i remember... try asking her number..or park the car and walk with her.
 

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OK, IM Hijacking the thread, bwahahah....
Well i have a differnt question.. which is what ithought this guy would ask with the title topic... :
IF YOU are in a CAR... say maybe ur at a stoplight... or maybe ur even MOVING(Harder). and the chick(s) is in the same situation (at a stoplight or moving), how do you pick her up... you obviously have a very short time if at a stop light... and if you are moving even harder?
 

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Just a funny thing that this reminds me of i was cruzin around ona saturday around 12am and i stoped at a red light.

And this white yukon pulls up next to me and thers 2 white chicks in it Bumping 50cent (lol) They were lookin hard at me too not ina nice way either.

And im in my little gay toyota celica sports car listen'ing to k0rn. Now im thinking hey they should be in this little ass car and me in that suv.

Just weird
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This poses yet another pertinent question. Say you're at a red light waiting for it to change. You glance over and you see a car load of girls and they are all laughing and snickering, right? How in the heck do you know if they are laughing at YOU or if they're thinking: "oh, look that guy is gay!" or "OMG, he's sOo Hot!!"


Sometimes, I just feel like sliding my window down and saying: "Hey, you should take a picture, it'll last longer!"

:rolleyes:
 

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By the sounds of it, you probably came off as a kidnapper. Bad idea.
 

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Here's how to do it south american style (columbian), and it'll suit your technique fine as well! :)

Hold a gun and say "Hey *****, this is a kidnapping, get in the car or i'll blow your mofo brains out"
then tie her up with duct tape and hold her for ransom.
 

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wolfie .. it's not really worth it going to jail for one pick up , no matter how hot the chick is ...

Any constructive ideas , anyone?
 

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wtf r u guys talkin about..
anyways back to my question
how do u pick up a chick if yall are drivin? (the chick is drivin too)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't jump in no car with someone that called me in while I was walking and minding my own business. Even if it were a hot girl. You've seen the transexuals nowadays. Amazing.
 

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wtf. i told you it is VERY hard to pull this off.

Why arent you going in the street to pick up chicks.


Alright, alright, lemme construct here.. first, sux2be... what the hell, self esteem set on low lately? chicks laugh at stupid **** all the time, if i gave a fukk half the time, i'd be one paranoid idiot....

Here is how u know if they are laughing at you or not.. look at them, and wink. they give u positive feedback..good for you, they turn away, you're done.


I really cant think of a great way to pick up a girl on the road.. you cant really just go "follow me lets talk" unless she is REALLY impressed by you.
 

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Go ahead of her and pull off to the side of the road, put on your hazzard lights, look under the hood and act like something is wrong with your car. When she gets closer ask her if she has a cell phone you can use cause you are having car trouble. Then start the conversation off from there.
 

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Four of us were in my friend's ride and we saw this girl next to us checking us out and smiling. I rolled down the window. She smiled and did also. (good sign!) We asked her where she was headed and she said she was coming home from work. She asked us what was going on tonight and we told her to pull over on a side street. She did (another good sign lol!) We chatted for a minute and then my friend got her number. She ended up supposedly being an ex-stripper. But later when we were all partying in this hottub she kept talking about sex yet refused to get naked. Attention *****!! My friend AFCed it all up and we finally persuaded him to stop calling her as she was shutting him out.
So yeah you can pick up girls while driving but the quality of women will prolly be poor.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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