"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Idea's on dates?

spanker

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Hi again,
At the moment works been pretty bad, I'm travelling alot and seem to be using a s*** load of petrol, as I took the position knowing full well about all the travelling they won't pay any expenses.

Problem being I've recentley started seeing a HB8 and am struggling to think of a cheap but good night out? any ideas guys as I'm skint and don't want to blow this 1?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tomatoes

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Haha i have the same problem. Im spending about £400 a month on petrol. Im in notts too.

I tend to go Cinema on Wednesdays....You can get buy one get one free on tickets if your on Orange. Worth buying a SIM card just so you have the offer if you want it.

Thursdays is open doors to everyone but cheap as student nights in Notts.

Problem with cheap is you get what you pay for. In Notts cheap is Weatherspoons/Lloyds/Waterfront. Expensive is oceana/casino. Better Quality places thow..

Depends what you like. If you really like her. I would bite the bullet and take her to a nice place. oceana is expensive but its the best looking club in town as im sure you know. Ah...thinking about it....Quilted Lhama is very good bar for good prices...Thats in the lace market so its up market but the prices are good these days.
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You don't have to go out to have a good time. Invite her back to your place, rent a good movie and just chill. If she's into you and you are both having fun, it doesn't matter where you are at. How many times a week do you take her out?
 

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Thanks for the ideas guy's, think there gonna come in handy, thinking a night in with her is due this w/e tho, lol
 

Climax

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Cheap, yet FUN dates...

1) Take her horse riding followed by a sunset picnic.

2) Invite her to your house, get a nice DVD, Get some candles, get some food, get some bubble bath, maybe some essence smells, a few roses/flowers, get some massage oils.... maybe some body cream/strawberries & cream, get some nice music, and that should set you up for an unforgettable night;)

3) Have a BBQ, invite some friends over, tell them to bring their costumes (If you have a swimming pool), get the cards out, get the drinking games out, and have a blast!

4) I don’t know if you have them, but instead of the normal Cinema movie, take her to a drive through (A cinema where u park off with your car and watch it from your car... These movies are normally displayed on big walls or something of that sort) This way you don’t have to worry about other people seeing you get it on with your girl if in the middle of the movie you decide that you wanna start.... umm... having some fun?:whistle:

5) Something that is always nice is House parties... Its nice chilling with your chick at a house party, having a few drinks, playing some pool, socializing, having fun, and then maybe sneak somewhere with her and fool around etc... Its free, and its a lot of fun;)

Hope these helped:up:


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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