"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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what's up guys. my gf and i have been dating for 8 months now and we have been having sex the whole time (about 2-4 times a week) she is graduating college this year (in about 1 week) and we haven't had sex in 2 weeks. i want to get her in the "mood" but i just can't seem to get it out of her mind that there is life outside of homework (ie me) any suggestions would be helpful.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dump her ass and find a chick who treats you with some respect.

But seriously - if your not getting what you need from her - you need to do something else - go out with your buddies. Have fun.

Tell her what your doing and why.
 
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Hi man.

I agree with NEWMAN.

This is a common thing. You have to give her some space. You didn’t give her the gift of missing you. It seems like she is fed up your presence all the time.

If want to have her attention, and the good sex again. Let her go man. Go out with your buddies and meet some other woman. If she asks what happing tell her that you are busy.

Don’t ever ask her why she is behaving the way she did it IT’S TURN OFF. Just ignore it and have your own life man.

Good luck.
 
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Hi man.

I agree with NEWMAN.

This is a common thing. You have to give her some space. You didn’t give her the gift of missing you. It seems like she is fed up your presence all the time.

If want to have her attention, and the good sex again. Let her go man. Go out with your buddies and meet some other woman. If she asks what happing tell her that you are busy.

Don’t ever ask her why she is behaving the way she did it IT’S TURN OFF. Just ignore it and have your own life man.

Good luck.
 
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WTF?

Graduating college is a big deal. Finals can be a *****, so cut her a little slack and let her study. If your problem continues after she's done with college, then do something about it. It's not even a big deal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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