"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ideas for a date on a TUESDAY NIGHT

nmartinez12443

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Alright I met this girl at a club and we hung out twice. First we went to the beach in Chicago than we went to the mall (eh). This chick is real low maintaince, but she lives 1 hr away. I wanted to go to the pool but its going to be cold (67). Any ideas for two above 21 adults? (on the cheap)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mtlwlu

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if you live in the chicago area, count your blessing that theres tons of options on a tuesday night. Id love to live in a city that big, there has to be a lot of options, mind you as you stated maybe they arent the cheapest things in the world, how much are cubs/white sox tickets? I know here the bluejays you can get really good seats for under $30 each or get even better seats from scalpers if u come in the 2nd inning cause they are desperate to get rid of them.
 
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