I'm kind of seeing this girl. Nothing too serious at the moment but we have discussed the possibility of pursuing more someday. Well, here's the issue. Sometimes I know she's got things on her mind (not about us in particular but other things going on in her life). She's told me of her best guy friend who she pretty vents everything to. I mean, it's good that I don't have to deal with listening to problems left & right but should part of me be concerned about this at all? I'd like for her to be able to trust me enough to talk about things going every now and then. Or is this the ideal spot I want to be in?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ideal spot to be in?
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