I'm kind of seeing this girl. Nothing too serious at the moment but we have discussed the possibility of pursuing more someday. Well, here's the issue. Sometimes I know she's got things on her mind (not about us in particular but other things going on in her life). She's told me of her best guy friend who she pretty vents everything to. I mean, it's good that I don't have to deal with listening to problems left & right but should part of me be concerned about this at all? I'd like for her to be able to trust me enough to talk about things going every now and then. Or is this the ideal spot I want to be in?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ideal spot to be in?
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