"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Idea for Valentines Day

Zwitterion

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Hey ya'll

So I work as a server at a restraunt and I was thinking of ways to get on the "good side" of some of the girls there. Well, more like all of them to be exact. I was thinking about buying a buqquet of rose for valentines day and giving a rose to every girl who works in the restraunt (including the lowely disfigured dishwashers in thr back). Theres a few girls I want to get with there butdon't have the balls to straight up ask out because getting rejected at work sucks and I can't read how they feel about me. Sometimes I think they like me other times I think "wow, definitely not attracted anymore." due to work stress and what not.

What do you think? Is this an original idea or completely afc?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dice

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I think you should stop sitting at home thinking of ways to get laid
 

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If you want to do it, then do it. You don't know future results and their ramifications without doing the action.
 

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Textbook definition of AFC.

Just because you buy them a rose for Vday, you expect them to screw you? You are planning on winning them with roses? Just because you spend money on rose, they owe you something like maybe a date?

And remember. Don't poop where you eat. Stay away from work romance. Like you said, it will create too much drama and jeopardize your job.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BMX

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It jeapordized my job:( and I've had to completely repress the memories since then. I've learned my lesson and so should you.
 

Zwitterion

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It's more of a push/pull tactic, I'm a relate ******* at work sometimes and I do not supplicate. Just because I'm buying flowers and giving them away you mystery method sheep clasify it as AFC. Judging by some of the responses it doesn't sound like any of you have thought about it. I'm not focusing on any one girl here, I'm trying to build a good reputation by being generous just for the sake. There's no neediness if I give it to ALL the girls

Now....how about some responses from someone who's not a chronic masterbater.
 

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Zwitterion said:
It's more of a push/pull tactic, I'm a relate ******* at work sometimes and I do not supplicate. Just because I'm buying flowers and giving them away you mystery method sheep clasify it as AFC. Judging by some of the responses it doesn't sound like any of you have thought about it. I'm not focusing on any one girl here, I'm trying to build a good reputation by being generous just for the sake. There's no neediness if I give it to ALL the girls

Now....how about some responses from someone who's not a chronic masterbater.

no need to flame ;) lol but there's basically two schools of thought here. a) it's afc and comes across as needy and demonstrates low value. b) you do what you want and you don't care what others think of you. im not even gonna offer advice because it sounds like you've already made up your mind honestly. you just have to make a decision.
 

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wht i would suggest is buy a box of chocolates and then just offer it to everyone....i think flowers are a bit too gay in this context as well
 

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LOL - to the OP, nice name.

Very... chemical.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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molecule with a positive and negative charge on different atoms.
 

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The Bat said:
Textbook definition of AFC.

Just because you buy them a rose for Vday, you expect them to screw you? You are planning on winning them with roses? Just because you spend money on rose, they owe you something like maybe a date?

And remember. Don't poop where you eat. Stay away from work romance. Like you said, it will create too much drama and jeopardize your job.
Valentine's Day is just another day. You need to find the one you want, and then work on her, flirting, kino, asking her on a date, ect. You can fool around at work if it's just a BS waiter job. If you are the Supervisor at IBM it's a different story.

I have found the one I want to fukk next, and I have been working on her for 3 weeks now. The flirting is going well. We have a date for Saturday, on Thursday, I am going to send some roses (not a dozen) and green m&ms to her job. I am doing this because her ex is in town, and isnt going to send her anything, so me sending her something will make her day a little brighter. THEN, once I have some drinks in her on Saturday, I am going to sing "Careless Whisper" to her, and see where the night goes. The last time I sang that, and looked into a woman's eyes, she was kissing me passionatley afterwards.
 

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JackPrescott said:
I am going to sing "Careless Whisper" to her, and see where the night goes. The last time I sang that, and looked into a woman's eyes, she was kissing me passionatley afterwards.
Lol ^^ good luck with that
Congratulations if that worked for me it sounds a bit "romantic comedy women movie" crap :D
 

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Enryu said:
Lol ^^ good luck with that
Congratulations if that worked for me it sounds a bit "romantic comedy women movie" crap :D
The last time I did it, I tried it on a drunk "9" at the bar with her friends, and looked right into her eyes as I sang it to her, in front of the whole crowd. She and her friends were so impressed that she rewarded me by sticking her tongue down my throat after the song. She had a boyfriend, so that never really went anywhere, but it did rile up and trigger all the other women at that bar.
 
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