"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Idea for beginners.

crossboss

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I think talking to cashiers is an easy way to go for newbs to start out. Since most cashiers start by saying "How are you doing?" or "Hi!" you can easily start up a conversation.

Also you don't need to always go for a number close, you can talk for the heck of it, not just making it a goal to get the number. Remember, the more you talk to girls, the better you get at it. I am not saying that cashiers will talk to you no matter what, but it is more likely.

Also if you want a job, work front desk at a gym. The reason behind this is if you work at the same time every day, you frequently run into the same girls each day. Also working at a food store in the mall is another idea. When not busy, you can start up conversations with mall employees who stop by all the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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qweretyuiopas

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Those do seem like good ideas I really like the gym one cause eventually you will see the same people everyday and get friendly with them.
 

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Just being put into the spot of customer service, gym front desk, doesn't mean you'll start becoming a PUA or DJ. It must be a self-brought upon change.

I worked for years in customer service in a grocery store (having to talk to A LOT of people). Nothing in my dealings with women changed until I made the conscious decision of forcing myself to go up and talk to women.

I like your ideas, I just don't think they are real world applicable.
 

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A lot of guys will go out to a mall and start up conversations with girls who are paid to talk to them: cashiers, store personnel, etc, for an hour or two, then go out to a club and play the game. It puts them in a good social mood and raises their state, since the girls are basically paid to flirt with them.

I am not one of these guys. I have never talked to a girl.
 
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