"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

I'd really appreciate some expert advice

Raoul Duke

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
32
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Hi guys,

Could really do with some advice on a good workout. I've just finished uni till September and have fourteen weeks until then. Basically i want to use this time to cut slightly (14 pounds to be exact) but want to retain some muscle. Please could someone give me some rough advice about the best way to go about this. I have daily access to a gym.

Thanks in advance.

P.S. I know i'll have to answer a few questions bout weight etc so please reply and i'll happily answer. Will really appreciate your help guys!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Lifeforce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2003
Messages
2,091
Reaction score
18
Location
SWEDEN
Read the bulking guide, put together an exercise plan from the advice there, then read the cutting guide and put together a meal plan, then get back here and ask specific questions if you wonder about anything.
 

MindOverMatter

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2004
Messages
1,887
Reaction score
12
follow the meal plan in the cutting guide.

if you do cardio, do it 8 hrs after your workout, or on a seperate day.

basically lower carb intake, keep protein high, eliminate fats. don't eat carbs late at night either. lift the same.
 

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
Or another option is getting out of the idea of "cutting" and "bulking" and instead get into the concept of gaining muscle while reducing bodyfat levels.

if u choose this ask me to write more
 

Raoul Duke

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
32
Reaction score
0
Age
43
yeah that sounds like the sort of thing i want to do, could you post please effort would really appreciate it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
You'll have to eat your ass off during the day and do a carb cut off between 7pm-5pm depending on how carb sensitive you are. Then you'll do low intensity cardio 30-45min in the morning walking on a treadmill 3-5 times a week.

http://www.intensemuscle.com/showthread.php?t=7228
 

MetalFortress

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2003
Messages
3,264
Reaction score
22
Location
Keesler AFB, Mississippi
That's an easy one. Just do 20-rep squats like normal, but don't eat to the point of feeling like you're going to pop. I've been getting bigger muscle, but my weight has stayed almost stagnant for the first two weeks (only a 4 lb gain). Yet I've been eating like a racehorse on weed (but not eating to the point of near-sickness, just eating until my almost neverending hunger is satisfied). And normally my metabolism isn't the best, either, but with the 20-reppers, it's gone bonkers.
 

Centaurion

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2001
Messages
2,314
Reaction score
17
Location
Europe
Here's an overall good routine.

Day 1 : Chest and Back

Chest

Flat Barbell Bench Press : 2 x 6-8 reps
Low Incline Dumbbell Press : 2 x 6-8 reps
Dips : 2 x 6-8 reps

Back

Chin ups : 2 x 6-8 reps
Deadlifts : 2 x 6-8 reps
Barbell Rows : 2 x 6-8 reps
Shrugs : 1 x 10 reps

Day 2 : OFF

Day 3 : Legs

Squats : 2 x 6-8 reps
Hack Squats : 2 x 6-8 reps
Leg Curls : 2 x 6-8 reps
Straight Legged Deadlifts : 2 x 6-8 reps
Standing Calve Raises : 4 x 10 reps

Day 4 : OFF

Day 5 : Shoulders, Triceps and Biceps

Shoulders

Military Press in Rack : 2 x 6-8 reps
Seated Dumbbell Press : 2 x 6-8 reps
Standing Lateral Raises : 2 x 10 reps

Triceps :

Narrow Grip bench Press : 2 x 6-8 reps
French Press : 2 x 6-8 reps

Biceps :

Barbell Curls : 2 x 6-8 reps
Hammer Curls : 1 x 6-8 reps

Day 6 : OFF

Day 7 : OFF



Abs to be done on any training day of personal choice.




http://www.wannabebig.com/article.php?articleid=25
 

Lifeforce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2003
Messages
2,091
Reaction score
18
Location
SWEDEN
Originally posted by MetalFortress
That's an easy one. Just do 20-rep squats like normal, but don't eat to the point of feeling like you're going to pop. I've been getting bigger muscle, but my weight has stayed almost stagnant for the first two weeks (only a 4 lb gain). Yet I've been eating like a racehorse on weed (but not eating to the point of near-sickness, just eating until my almost neverending hunger is satisfied). And normally my metabolism isn't the best, either, but with the 20-reppers, it's gone bonkers.
Nice to hear, I just started them, do you do many sets with 20 reps or just 1 a couple of times a week?
 

semag

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2002
Messages
1,269
Reaction score
1
Age
42
I do 1 20 repper once a week.... I'm thinking of switching it up a little to bust like 6 heavy, and then do a set of 20 reps, getting both types of work in there, low volume/high volume.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top