"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd like some feedback on my style...

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Gustav Yavo

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umm, no, to all of them....
and whats up with the shoes? they look like your wearing tissue boxes on your feet. can you even close the blazer's buttons from the first pic? lets put it this way, you have your own personal style, but your not "in style".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gustav Yavo

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your too wide to wear small blazers and jackets like that, so it just makes you appear even wider.
 
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Dude, you're 18 and you dress like my dad.

The clothes look alright, maybe a bit too big or too small depending on the picture... but, well... you dress like my dad.
 
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Yeah remote, they *do* get intimidated when you look hotter, but that only works out better for the guy, right?

ChrizZ, the THIRD one was excellent.

For an 18 year old you sorta come off as a poser. It looks like you wear your pants really high, and that automatically gives an uptight feel. Your pants look like they are way too long for you because of that (and because of the bunching up at the feet). Plus, from the way you are standing, it appears you try a little too hard.

I remember you saying that you hated the jeans and blazer look. Why? Maybe with the right shoes and belt you could pull that look off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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