Well im a freshman in college and up to now ive never had a girlfriend before. My friend becomes friends with this girl, I meet her and all 3 of us become good friends. We chilled like all the time the first 3 months of college. Shes rather crazy (drugs, permiscuous) but fun and we all have a good laugh.
However, she started coming on to me. Like jumpin in my bed and play humping me and ****. At first I didnt want to do anything with her because of friendship status, but eventually i give in and we start hooking up. She tells me she likes me. I like her to. Me and her hang out even more. At this point I got sick and went to the hospital for a few days. During that time my friend told me she ****ed some other guy, I was rather bummed out, however I wasnt going out with her, she said no to a relationship with me when I asked.
She tells our mutual friend she would never **** me, and doesnt want a relationship with me. Then thanksgiving break rolls around. She was originally going to go home with me but ended getting a ride home from our mutual friend. He told me I weirded her out a bit because I was psyhed that she would be sleeping in me bed heh, so she called me up and gave me some bull**** excuse as to why she couldnt come home with me. She only wanted a ride from me because she could **** some other dude.
Well the next day when im going home shes calling me all day to hang out, we eventually do and she sleeps over in my bed. We hang out the whole week, end up ****ing in my hottub while drinking a really expensive bottle of wine under the stars.
So I get back to school with her after an awesome thanksgiving break and we end up going out.
Well 2 days ago she runs out of my room unexpectadly hides from me in our mutual friends room. I find her there hiding in the cloest when she comes out and she tells me shes breaking up with me. Im devestated and she knows it but I just tell her to leave. She ends up asking me back out the same night telling me she likes me and we talk all night.
Then yesterday we hang out like normal, but she invites me to her room saying she likes me but doesnt like relationships. She said she asked me back out because she didnt want to stop being friends. I end up just walking out and piling all her stuff in my room back into hers again.
So that was my first real relationship ever. Problem is I still like her. Im ****ing crushed, I know we only really went out for a week, but ive known her ever since ive been at college. So input feedback on this is appreciated.
Also what should my next course of action be, just have my mutual friend relay to her I dont want to see her anymore and see her reaction, or be friends with her and wait for the next on and off fling with her like usual. I also needed to vent I feel kind of ****ty today. Thanks.
However, she started coming on to me. Like jumpin in my bed and play humping me and ****. At first I didnt want to do anything with her because of friendship status, but eventually i give in and we start hooking up. She tells me she likes me. I like her to. Me and her hang out even more. At this point I got sick and went to the hospital for a few days. During that time my friend told me she ****ed some other guy, I was rather bummed out, however I wasnt going out with her, she said no to a relationship with me when I asked.
She tells our mutual friend she would never **** me, and doesnt want a relationship with me. Then thanksgiving break rolls around. She was originally going to go home with me but ended getting a ride home from our mutual friend. He told me I weirded her out a bit because I was psyhed that she would be sleeping in me bed heh, so she called me up and gave me some bull**** excuse as to why she couldnt come home with me. She only wanted a ride from me because she could **** some other dude.
Well the next day when im going home shes calling me all day to hang out, we eventually do and she sleeps over in my bed. We hang out the whole week, end up ****ing in my hottub while drinking a really expensive bottle of wine under the stars.
So I get back to school with her after an awesome thanksgiving break and we end up going out.
Well 2 days ago she runs out of my room unexpectadly hides from me in our mutual friends room. I find her there hiding in the cloest when she comes out and she tells me shes breaking up with me. Im devestated and she knows it but I just tell her to leave. She ends up asking me back out the same night telling me she likes me and we talk all night.
Then yesterday we hang out like normal, but she invites me to her room saying she likes me but doesnt like relationships. She said she asked me back out because she didnt want to stop being friends. I end up just walking out and piling all her stuff in my room back into hers again.
So that was my first real relationship ever. Problem is I still like her. Im ****ing crushed, I know we only really went out for a week, but ive known her ever since ive been at college. So input feedback on this is appreciated.
Also what should my next course of action be, just have my mutual friend relay to her I dont want to see her anymore and see her reaction, or be friends with her and wait for the next on and off fling with her like usual. I also needed to vent I feel kind of ****ty today. Thanks.
