I'd like a phycho~ analysis plz

[evolvingnerd]

not sure what type of phycho thing this is, phychoanalytical?
whatever
anyways, i was wondering about what some hobbies for me to do would be
i wanna get some stuff going on in my life so that women aren't always on my mind
tring to kill the desperation

now i like my computer, (although definitley starting to lose interest, as witnessed through my dwindling love of games)
i like to drink
i hate to dance
i have friends who are much similar, and i love hanging out with them
i'm still quite shy, although i'm noticing i'm becoming way better at the C+F thing, even just amongst the fellas
ummm...i listen to heaps of different music, such as game music (eg raven sheild, total annihilation) pirates of the carribean soundtrack , some punk rock, nickelback, offspring, linkin park

i've been changing over the past few months, however one of the few things holding me back is a lack of things to do
always finding myself trying to prolong a conversation with a girl, and almost never bneing first to break off

so ideas???
cheers

 

[Capi Crimini]

Get some new friends...

To stop the

always finding myself trying to prolong a conversation with a girl, and almost never bneing first to break off

1. learn to noun and study some techniques on that here like open ended convo's as a good thing to fall back on. Then learn to go intimate with the convo and get deeper into her mind and make her want you. Not vise versa.

2. every night last thing before bed repeat everything you did that day in the most complete form you can backwards.

3. watch comedy

the lack of things to do is your own fault. Not ours. Not someone else's. If your bored and don't want to leave the house. Call up a random person and hold up a convo. You might make a new friend. Go take a jog. Go up to a random house and talk to a person in your neighborhood.
It takes balls, and people like people who have balls.
Take up something new... Music. I personally love to draw and write.
It's all in your mind kid.
GO AND LIVE...

-EDIT-

I also love to drink... Vodka and anything. I don't like beer that much. Mainly Vodka. Must be My Russian Roots... Or my Irish Roots... Or my German Roots.... Yeah. No wonder I like to drink. I love Screwdrivers. Or Vodka and Redbull. Those are good....

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

READ, then READ some more and then READ again! This will broaden your horizons, sharpen your intellect and increase your vocabulary, writing, and conversational skills!!!

Stay away from games and comic books - for crying out loud!!!!

 

[evolvingnerd]

i'm definitley cutting down on the games
probably by about 5 fold

at anyrate, i was thinking of perhaps taking up a self defence class
and maybe i shall rekindle my musical abilities

but i was also wondering whether anyone had any specific ideas of things i could do, stuff that's a little out of the ordinary that may well be tailored to my likings

thanks for the responses!