"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Iceland

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What is OLD like as a foreigner on vacation in Iceland?

Are they very reserved people and difficult with being extroverted?

Do Iceland women go out to bars?

Do they play pool or what social activities are expected?

Are they family oriented and going to church every Sunday?

What is it like visiting the natural springs? Is it a social event?

How do they dress? In high end skiing apparel?

Is that one major city (starts with an R and it’s difficult to pronounce) the only place that foreigners need to visit or are there other towns worthwhile visits?

Do Iceland women have conservative roles and want to have husbands and kids?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nah, I won’t be visiting iceland after learning they are a woke/naïve country of people who hate themselves.

I don’t want to be anywhere near woke self-destructive people. :sad:
 

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All I know is that I would be hopelessly mogged by every Viking man there.
 

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If you show a lot of interest in people in other countries and enthusiasm it goes a very long way. I think i'd do great there.
The friends I've know who have gone have absolutely loved it.
 

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Do Iceland women have conservative roles and want to have husbands and kids?
Not even close. Iceland is one of the most feminist dating cultures in the world.


Do Iceland women go out to bars?
Yes.

I recall reading from Roosh (who published Bang Iceland in 2011) that dating as Americans know it isn't quite the same in Iceland. In Iceland, people meet in bars, have sex, and then if they like the sex, they will go on dates.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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