Icebreakers to use at a football game

[Viper]

Yeah, well, tonight is our teams last football game, but that's besides the fact. After the half time show, when the band play, a bunch of chicks hang out near the concession stands and I mean, A LOT of chicks. But as you guys know, my approach just plain f*cking sucks and usually gets me no where, I read something interesting in another thread about "Breaking the Ice", but naturally, I'm not really good at that, so I need your help. Secondly, since most of the chicks hanging out there will be in groups and seeing as I can't grab the interest of one girl, I'm not sure I'll be able to grab the interest of 5 or 6 girls that I don't even know yet. I want to know, how does one grab the interest of a group of chicks? No, I'm not talking about a situation where you want a certain girl and you single her out, I'm talking about grabbing the interest of the group of girls as a whole, some advice on this would really help me out when I approach tonight after Half time. Like I said before, I'm not that good at naturally breaking the ice, so could guys maybe give some examples of how I could break the ice with a group of girls in this situation? Thanks.

 

[oakraiderz2]

http://www.bristollair.com/outergame/skills/opening/

 

[strams4ever]

'Hey what school do you go to?"
"Have I seen you around (school)?
"What year are you?"
"Do you know (cool dude)?"

Any of those work fine, don't overthink the situation it's no biggie. Or you could just say "Hi"

 

[Viper]

Well, of course they're on the home side, so MOST of them go to my school, so I couldn't really use that. Plus, trust me, I've done the whole, "Hey, how's it going?" approach, asked open ended questions(Like the ones you stated above) yet the girls still didn't seem interested.

 

[strams4ever]

It has to do with the way you say it. You can't just give up after one or two attempts, what have you go to lose?

 

[kev me723]

I can tell you that right now, no matter what you say, you WILL NOT get any good responses. Even with the best lines. Why you ask? Simply, your attitude. I get the overall vibe that you think you are going to fail. You tell yourself that you are unsuccessful and don't have the moves. Well guess what.. YOU DO HAVE THE MOVES. You can make any girl want you like the sexy piece of man that you are. You just have to convince yourself first. Once you've done that, convincing girls is easy.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Viper
Well, of course they're on the home side, so MOST of them go to my school, so I couldn't really use that. Plus, trust me, I've done the whole, "Hey, how's it going?" approach, asked open ended questions(Like the ones you stated above) yet the girls still didn't seem interested.

Get their opinion on something. Maybe theyre not interested cause youre ugly, youre definatly boring. Go to www.bristollair.com and read EVERYTHING! You should then never ask a gay question again.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by kev me723
I can tell you that right now, no matter what you say, you WILL NOT get any good responses. Even with the best lines. Why you ask? Simply, your attitude. I get the overall vibe that you think you are going to fail. You tell yourself that you are unsuccessful and don't have the moves. Well guess what.. YOU DO HAVE THE MOVES. You can make any girl want you like the sexy piece of man that you are. You just have to convince yourself first. Once you've done that, convincing girls is easy.

I don't think if I had the attitude that I could win, that I would be able to convince girls. My overall game just sucks. This isn't from one or two attempts either, this is how almost every approach I make turns out. Therefore I figure if I keep doing the same approach, I won't get any good results. Another thing reason why my attitude isn't so great, is because of my voice tone, people have a hard time understanding what I'm saying and alot of times, it comes off as gibberish, even when I talk loud, my voice tone still sounds goofy, worse, I don't think there's anything that I can do about it. That effects my game and it's one of the reasons I don't talk to people alot, I feel they will ignore me or misunderstand me, if I try to start casual conversation with them, which has happened before. Although, I've come to accept the fact that I have a bad voice, that doesn't mean people still don't tease me about it and that doesn't mean that it doesn't affect my game. Since alot of girls first impressions of me were "quiet guy, little weird, doesn't talk much" it's going to take more than going up to her and saying "How's it going?", with a little conversation, to get her interested.

Get their opinion on something. Maybe theyre not interested cause youre ugly, youre definatly boring. Go to www.bristollair.com and read EVERYTHING! You should then never ask a gay question again.

I'm not ugly, I mean, I'm no where near being the ugliest guy in the school, but still, I'm certainly not ugly. I'll check that Bristollair site out though.

 

[i am me]

Originally posted by Viper
I don't think if I had the attitude that I could win, that I would be able to convince girls.

What you just said shows how negative your attitude is. About your voice though, try singing to some of your favorite songs except sing in a voice that you personally like. The more you try to sound like this, the easier it'll be to sound like that when you're talking.

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by i am me
What you just said shows how negative your attitude is. About your voice though, try singing to some of your favorite songs except sing in a voice that you personally like. The more you try to sound like this, the easier it'll be to sound like that when you're talking.

I'll try that.
But negative attitude dude? I'm not denying myself. I always tell myself how I can get any chick, blah, blah, blah, but then I start thinking about how nothing will happen. Just because I have a positive attitude, wouldn't make me better with getting chicks and really, it would be a fake positive attitude, because in my mind I would be thinking, "Is this **** working? Is she interested or is just being nice? Does she think I'm lame or corny? Does she think I'm weird?" blah, blah, blah.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Viper
it would be a fake positive attitude, because in my mind I would be thinking, "Is this **** working? Is she interested or is just being nice? Does she think I'm lame or corny? Does she think I'm weird?" blah, blah, blah.

Stop complaining, youre like a little girl. If you wanna try to change your attitude and make your life better do it, if not DONT. We're trying to help you, stop being so f*cking condescending. As you think you shall become. If you tell yourself something enough, youll start to believe it. Stop caring what people think, its not gonna get you anywhere. In conclusion...stop being such a timid whiny, insecure, unconfident puss.

 

[Dead By Dawn]

Why don't you try focusing on how you percieve things instead of how other people do? Why are you acting like if girls are some type of superior race who decide whether you live or die based on how you interact?

The problem you seem to have is in the fact that you think everybody cares. Most people are like you, totally self conscious and believe that everybodys always judging them, when in fact everybodys too worried about themselves.

Try picturing the potential you have. No matter how unlikely these things may seem you could become president, the person who discovers the cure for cancer, or any other number of things. Doesn't worrying about what other people think of you seem trivial compared to your potential?

I used to be sort of like you; I would never do anything or perform to my best for fear of being criticised. Now that I've found this site and changed I have much more success. I'm constantly told that I'm very intelligent, I have potential etc. When I compliment a girl they actually appreciate it(as opposed to before when they would basically ignore it). Trust me, when you believe in something 100% other people will follow.

Why are other peoples opinions so important to you anyway? If you become a ladies man you'll probably face guys who will put you down anyway. If a girl acts a *****; "goodbye, I never saw you before I'll never see you again. No big deal I'll go get another girl but you'll always be a *****."

When you become successful with girls guess who'll be angry at herself for being a *****?