"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ice Queen at work is being a pain in the ass. How should I deal with her?

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Some woman started acting like an Ice Queen totally out of the blue. Before that she'd flirt any chance she got and was much easier to get along with. For a little over a week she's been acting cold and PMS'ey, and has not been acting like an adult. I've been ignoring her, but she's going out of her way to make nasty remarks at me.
It's tempting to tell her off, but that wouldn't be proffessional, and would probably just make her act like MORE of a pain in the ass. Any idea what their reasons for this behavior is, and the best way to deal with this type of woman?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think the word you are lookin for is Queen Bee. She may have developed an ego over the last few weeks , she may have a boyfriend that is some high status male or something. If I were you, Id ask her what her problem is and if she isnt reasonable with you, tell her to her face to piss off.
 
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From my experience is best to clip peoples wings right away.Before they start thinking they can get away with pulling anything on you.

Just tell her to **** off and call it day.
 
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Let me guess. She likes you, and after flirting failed, she read some fwcking website that told her to behave in this new way in order to make you interested. :D
 
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Well come to think of it, the other day she looked at me and gave a half smile, the first time she showed any emotion for awhile, and when I said "what's up" she said "dork" and walked away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What a dumb trick. Personally i would just ignore her. Thats what i did to some trick at my old job and i was just flirting with the other girls even more in front of her.
 
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girls are crazy, there are a number of reasons as to why she's acting the way she is. Hormone imbalance, Ego treatment, guy blew her off for a date, it's tuesday, etc etc

Anyway if she's making bad remarks to you, I recommend a little back bone.

Me I'm a big fan of confrentation, even though many people seem to think that it gives girls power.
I only find that to be true if you don't know how to handle yourself and manipulate the mind of the girl on the fly. Going in with a game plan helps a little bit, but really it's a talent that can't be taught. Like a natural speed, you either have it or you don't.

If you can't go that way I'd recommend just letting the whole thing blow over. She can't act like this for ever... even though a few years could be in the picture. Maybe she'll break down and admit that she's been acting like this becasue she likes you, but I wouldn't hold my breath.
 
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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
From my experience is best to clip peoples wings right away.Before they start thinking they can get away with pulling anything on you.
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Perfect. Recently there´s a girl texting me and sending emails calling me "idiot", "stupid". It seems to be done in a joking way. She´s teasing me and I think I have to do what is in this quote!

To the "ice queen" there´s a site about bullying: http://www.bullyonline.org/
 
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