"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ice packs, eyes

S0LID

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are these any good for darkness under eyes?

Also in a mans appearance how important is it that he has no darkness or bags?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i really dont think ice packs will help you....

circles under your eyes really aren't relevant. dont worry about them, chances are theyll go away any way
 

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ya gotta be kidding, darkness under your eyes effects ya appearance loads. Females look for healthy looking guys, darkness is a sighn of being unhealthy IMO.
 

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yeh, afk's right. the post on getting rid of dark circles under your eyes:- the guy discovered that putting aloe vera on under his eyes once every night made the dark circles vanish.

however, when i went into town to look for some aloe vera, i couldn't find any:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thanks for the tip about aloe vera

not that I know what I'm talking about here, but I think I see it a lot as an ingredient for skin creams
 
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