“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ice Breaker

DJ McBuster

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I need to find a new ice breker for my mac.You see I can handle the cold approach and I have a killer hot approach but my middle level mac is weak. So what I'm asking is how should I go after the we sorta know each other types. I mean I don't want to introduce myself and ask them silly questions but I don't know them well enough to just talk about wahtever so I need an appraoch.I know my DJ skills can handle it, but I just need something to grab their attention an hold it...So I asking for your best ice breaker for a female you know but have not shown intrest in yet, until now...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bourne

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Whats been working rather good for me recently is commenting on the environment we happen to be in or commenting something about them.

"I couldn't help but notice ..." or "Do you think ...?"
 

Climax

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hmm...

If you kinda know this chick then just say something like "So what we doing this week-end?:p" <--- Normally you will be able to ell if she is interested by her response....

Otherwise, if its just a normal conversation, then speak about things that will make her feel happy... Example: A dream holiday, does she believe in love? , a hobby that she does (i.e.: dancing), ask her where she likes partying/chilling etc, so at the same time as making good conversation with her, you are also learning more about her so that you can use this information to your benefit in the future.

Anyways, besides for this.... You don’t need to stress yourself out about this little stuff, all you are doing is making it more complicated that it needs to be to hook up with a girl... Overall, all you really need to do is make her enjoy herself when being in your company (regardless of what u speak about), and you need to make sure that IL is high, which it will be if you are charming, flirtatious, and confident...

Hope this helped...


Laterz...
 

Tomatoes

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DJ McBuster said:
I need to find a new ice breker for my mac.You see I can handle the cold approach and I have a killer hot approach but my middle level mac is weak. So what I'm asking is how should I go after the we sorta know each other types. I mean I don't want to introduce myself and ask them silly questions but I don't know them well enough to just talk about wahtever so I need an appraoch.I know my DJ skills can handle it, but I just need something to grab their attention an hold it...So I asking for your best ice breaker for a female you know but have not shown intrest in yet, until now...
Im the same. I HATE cold approaching....not scared..I just see it as a little rude. Like Telesales. I have slept with every good looking girl who has frindged my "friends group". I have become very adept at it. Basically what you need to do is think how you know this girl. What social link do you have with her? How do you know her? That is always an easy ice breaker and you dont look like your trying to pick her up from square one.

Examples.

You know her from school?
Ask her a question about school.

You know her threw a friend of yours (Most common for me)
Ask them how they know that person. Where they met and ****. Then you can move onto her telling you about yourself...blah blah fluff and your off..

This works. I have only failed twice...i was being greedy. Trying to pull both girls at the same time :D . Plus the friend in our group had warned them about me :woo: and they had ****blocks bigger than the Great Wall of China so were easy to next.
 
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