"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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IamtheAlphamale

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For me the point of this journal is to get better at cold approaches. I do well in normal settings but in cold approaches it seems like a task and I would really like to master the bar scene since I haven't done especially well at it in the past. My bootcamp will be sundays-saterdays. I am going to afternoon shift next week from night shift. I am not sure if my new shift will be 2:30-11pm or 3-11:30pm but I am really hoping for 2:30-11 because it gives me an extra half an hour if I want to goto the bar or something. So basically anti-dumps stuff from the bible is completely out as far as I'm concerned for the next 8 weeks. EXEPT I do not intend to pick up this HB9 from my work unless she completely drops the strategies. I have to do the readings now. Oh also I am going to join the gym this week because I would like to get into better shape. This is going to be a very interesting 8 weeks. Maybe very humbling but I hope not :p

Link to bootcamp http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So anyways I went to buy smokes today at the corner store and I went in and I checked to see who the cashier was and it was the cool owner guys wife but anyways there was some hotty hb8 wearing black spandex or some **** so we had this moment of eyecontact (she was buying stuff) you know the look when you both basically are like your hot, well it was one of those and then I went to get my pop that I wanted. I shoulda said Hi and smiled or approached but I forgot about the bootcamp. I also hadn't brushed my teeth yet which is pretty bad considering its like 8pm. Anyways I figured I should put that in here.
 
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Got in one Hi with a smile at work. I'm gonna have my work cut out for me on saterday. I know like everyone in my factory so its difficult to say hi to people I have never talked to before :(
 
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Car broke down and in my spare time I had to do a lot of **** to get it fixed plus my saterday night got ****ed as well thanks to the HB9 I talked about earlier. So I'm gonna have to hope for better luck this week and restart this ****.. Nice start eh?
 
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