"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IamtheAlphamale

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For me the point of this journal is to get better at cold approaches. I do well in normal settings but in cold approaches it seems like a task and I would really like to master the bar scene since I haven't done especially well at it in the past. My bootcamp will be sundays-saterdays. I am going to afternoon shift next week from night shift. I am not sure if my new shift will be 2:30-11pm or 3-11:30pm but I am really hoping for 2:30-11 because it gives me an extra half an hour if I want to goto the bar or something. So basically anti-dumps stuff from the bible is completely out as far as I'm concerned for the next 8 weeks. EXEPT I do not intend to pick up this HB9 from my work unless she completely drops the strategies. I have to do the readings now. Oh also I am going to join the gym this week because I would like to get into better shape. This is going to be a very interesting 8 weeks. Maybe very humbling but I hope not :p

Link to bootcamp http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So anyways I went to buy smokes today at the corner store and I went in and I checked to see who the cashier was and it was the cool owner guys wife but anyways there was some hotty hb8 wearing black spandex or some **** so we had this moment of eyecontact (she was buying stuff) you know the look when you both basically are like your hot, well it was one of those and then I went to get my pop that I wanted. I shoulda said Hi and smiled or approached but I forgot about the bootcamp. I also hadn't brushed my teeth yet which is pretty bad considering its like 8pm. Anyways I figured I should put that in here.
 

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Got in one Hi with a smile at work. I'm gonna have my work cut out for me on saterday. I know like everyone in my factory so its difficult to say hi to people I have never talked to before :(
 

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Car broke down and in my spare time I had to do a lot of **** to get it fixed plus my saterday night got ****ed as well thanks to the HB9 I talked about earlier. So I'm gonna have to hope for better luck this week and restart this ****.. Nice start eh?
 
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