"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would like to thank a girl who helped me, how?

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Well this girl have been very nice to me and helped me solve a big problem while asking nothing in return.

She is a friend although I often kiss her lips and we touch each other, I wonder what could I do to show real appreciation for what she did.

Buying flowers looks lame and buying choccolate would make her happy but would make her feel like crap after eating it (shes skinny anyway).

Any idea or suggestion?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you trying to hook up with this girl? Or you seriously just want to thank her? Take her to dinner... then back to your place.
 
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You didn't get any responses because it's a weird question.

If it's just a friend, then treat her to a drink or a night of bowling or whatever.

And if it's someone you're trying to date, then make a move and stop thinking that you can buy your way into her pants.
 
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No no I have no romantic or sexual intention toward her, just show some appreciation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would just take her to dinner, to a movie... whatever really. But I would suggest going somewhere over buying her flowers or chocolate. Those make it look like you are trying to "buy" her. Some thing if the dinner is too nice. Keep it casual.
 
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