"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would like to kiss you :(

ChemicalBurn

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Hi Guys!
(First of all I'm from Europe so sorry for my english :rolleyes: )

Anyway
I have just screwed it up!
I have a lot of chicks in my class and I have a lot of social proof... I have quite good social circle (a lot of femele friends)... Recently i hanged out with one of my social circles (4 females and me).
We were in club and we were dancing... and one of them started suddenly touching me really heavy... and than she said to me in front of her friends "I want you" (but it seemed to me it was in more humorous way)... I ignored it...

Next time we were on the party (about 20 people) I was just social person... tried to be cool with everyone... And when we left alone... she said to me "I want to kiss you"... I freaked out... and said to her something stupid like this:"You are just kidding me... you would not let me kiss you"... she answered:"I'm not kidding... only you are ***** (coward)"... she smiled and turned away to a friend... she become acting quite agressive after this (maybe because of aclohol... maybe because of my behaviour?).

Recently i tried to ignore her a little bit and let her see interacting with other girls...
She smsed me:"You ****ing bastard i jealous... you've got new friends"

Last time in school she acted quite normal... you know... there was nothing about "us"

Recently were smsing each other... and she was (for me it was sarcastic) saying that we are couple... that she trying to get me... i answered:"I'm counting you points... but i won't let you know which postion you've got"
She replied... that she is dying to know...

**** i do not know if she is for real or she is sarcastic... she looks like she can have a better looking guy...

You know what is worst... I think she is right... I'm *****(coward)... I should have kissed her than... but It would be my first time :( and i so ****ing scared... What is more i do not know if she is for real.

Can i ask you for an advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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D4rKn3sS

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Wow sucks to be you...........just kidding..........kinda

Anyway all you did there was read the signs wrong. The fact that she had to ask you for a kiss meant that she did want you, but was impatient.

Also girls don't care much for looks. Heck i'm friggin 110kg and i got a stream of girlfriends.

When it comes to confidence (which you lack), just take a deep breath and go for it. Seriously whats the worst that could happen?
 

Brighty

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be more confident. If she says I want to kiss her you should've said "damn right you do, but do I want to kiss you?"

Read up on the bible man
 
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