I would like some advice on what happened at my show

[HBSpray]

Greetings! I've been reading this forum for a while but never actually posted. It's all been very helpful. Now I'm hoping I may be able to get some advice.

I'm a musician and played a show last night. A women was with our group of friends and I knew she was interested in me. I made sure to talk to her throughout the night but also not to spend all my time on her. At the end of the night when I was leaving, she came walking back to me and started making out with me. When we were done she said very contently "Ok, I got what I needed" and walked to her car. I was taken back by her move she made on me and replied "Alrightly" and proceeded to drive home. I realized when I got home I hadn't asked for her number. I suppose I could have gotten out of the car and chased her down and asked for it but I didn't feel like it was the right thing to do. I'm sure I'll see her again since she's friends with the band. I could get her number from someone but I don't want to do that either. Did I make a mistake by not getting it right there or is this situation still salvageable?

 

[MacAvoy]

No, stay away from this women, she's an AW or just needs an ego stroke. There are women that will make out with a guy just to get some validation, then cut it out right there, move on.

 

[ksoileau]

Greetings! I've been reading this forum for a while but never actually posted. It's all been very helpful. Now I'm hoping I may be able to get some advice.

I'm a musician and played a show last night. A women was with our group of friends and I knew she was interested in me. I made sure to talk to her throughout the night but also not to spend all my time on her. At the end of the night when I was leaving, she came walking back to me and started making out with me. When we were done she said very contently "Ok, I got what I needed" and walked to her car. I was taken back by her move she made on me and replied "Alrightly" and proceeded to drive home. I realized when I got home I hadn't asked for her number. I suppose I could have gotten out of the car and chased her down and asked for it but I didn't feel like it was the right thing to do. I'm sure I'll see her again since she's friends with the band. I could get her number from someone but I don't want to do that either. Did I make a mistake by not getting it right there or is this situation still salvageable?

Sounds like she really disrespected you. I'd next her. Seriously.

 

[ecilop]

wow, I can't lie
"Ok, I got what I needed"
that's f'ed up haha

sounds like a *****, slut, or maybe she had a bet with her friends?
it might be worth getting her # and going on a weekday date to a coffee shop or something to see if she has a personality or just is a complete slut

 

[MacAvoy]

sounds like a *****, slut, or maybe she had a bet with her friends?
it might be worth getting her # and going on a weekday date to a coffee shop or something to see if she has a personality or just is a complete slut

Since when is a girl who WON'T put out become a slut?

 

[HBSpray]

***Just an update on this***

All day at the show she was looking out for me (grabbing my smokes for me, watching my coat, etc) and hinting that we should hang out more. Two weeks before the show I was informed that she was interested in me by one of her friends and asked me what I thought about it. I gave an imparshal answer to it.

Apparently today she was calling around trying to get my number and I finally told someone just to give it to her. I asked why she wanted it so badly (thinking that the whole episode could have just been a random make out as those things can happen or maybe because I wasn't as responsive to her flirting as she may have liked and had something to prove) and her friend told me "She thinks you're interesting and would like to get to know you better."

I'm not completely opposed to the idea of going out for coffee or something like that to check it out further.

 

[Sir I]

only correct response would have been, that was a waste of time.

simply cause she had the I CAN GET WHAT I WANT attitude, so next time simply say hi when she's there but do not enter into conversation and if she tries cut it short after she asks you how are you doing. look at your watch or your mobile phone as if you gotten a text message and say, gotta go see you later.

that's it do not let yourself be lured into her game

 

[KarmaSutra]

No, stay away from this women, she's an AW or just needs an ego stroke. There are women that will make out with a guy just to get some validation, then cut it out right there, move on.

Ding ding ding! Tin Cup is the winner for best reply in this thread!

Winner winner chicken dinner!

 

[WhitePimp]

Dude, just have some fun with this chick. If a girl came up to me and started making out with me (as long as I thought she was cute) I think it'd be fvcking funny as hell. Dont get all nuts thinking LTR or "what ifs? and all that BS, just but a nut in her goofy face and call it a damn good day. :cheer:

 

[DonGorgon]

LOL...a groupy ho used you and discarded you...LOL how do you feel.?