"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Babnik

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How do you deal with it again?

When she says it with a playful attitude "What will he do if I say this?" If its a 1 on 1 situation then completely ignoring that statement feels real awkward.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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vorbis

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I usually agree with it in a playful tone. Something like "Oh yeah, of course" Then continue trying to physicaly escalate if in isolation.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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"there you go again with that dirty mind of yours! is sex all you women think about these days?"

C&F covers a variety of sins brother.
 

ChrizZ

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"Oh well, so what´s your sister doing tonight?"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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onyx

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ChrizZ said:
"Oh well, so what´s your sister doing tonight?"
roflmfao! i once used that, she had a shocked laugh on her face
 

azanon

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"I'm SOOO glad, because I was afraid you'd pressure me before I was ready" (ala the movie 40-year old Virgin).
 
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