"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wonder what Neil Straus would say

DJnoob

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about this site if he ever sees it.

30% REAL 70% BS ?

What do you guys think..

I think we are going to reach the point where you don't know whether the advices/tips you receive here are BS or not.... The real DJS here prolly just giving out fake tips because they probably think these keyboard jockeys and trolls on this site don't deserve to be a DON JUAN
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He already knows about this site I'm sure..
 

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Well, of course you shouldn't blindly believe everything you read man. Experiment and see what works for you.
 

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guys i recommend you find your city lair and post in it's forum. better community and unlike this place it probably will have Gurus posting in it.

there are forums that have some of the big names in them. Miami, NY. Las Vegas and Los Angeles each have a bunch of lairs with forums and gurus. (the ones mentioned in The Game and such)
 

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Originally posted by Logen
guys i recommend you find your city lair and post in it's forum. better community and unlike this place it probably will have Gurus posting in it.

there are forums that have some of the big names in them. Miami, NY. Las Vegas and Los Angeles each have a bunch of lairs with forums and gurus. (the ones mentioned in The Game and such)
Does chicago have lairs? Im sure we do. how can I find them?

I would love to actually meet some experts first hand. That would help me out more than just internet advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, it's like learning anything.

Buy a book and some tapes on speaking French, buy a DVD on yoga or whatever and you can make progress but hang around with French spreakers or go to a yoga class and your progress will be that much better.
 

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Good thing about advice is you can do 2 things with it. Take it or leave it.

Get off your high horse about the keyboard jokeys. They are here to learn. What would be the point of a site to learn about getting girls if everyone on it knew? Its like a school with just teachers.


Neil Strauss will know about this site.
 

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Originally posted by Logen
guys i recommend you find your city lair and post in it's forum. better community and unlike this place it probably will have Gurus posting in it.

there are forums that have some of the big names in them. Miami, NY. Las Vegas and Los Angeles each have a bunch of lairs with forums and gurus. (the ones mentioned in The Game and such)
do an internet search, yahoo groups, msn groups. these sort of things
 
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