"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wonder what Neil Straus would say

DJnoob

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about this site if he ever sees it.

30% REAL 70% BS ?

What do you guys think..

I think we are going to reach the point where you don't know whether the advices/tips you receive here are BS or not.... The real DJS here prolly just giving out fake tips because they probably think these keyboard jockeys and trolls on this site don't deserve to be a DON JUAN
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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He already knows about this site I'm sure..
 

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Well, of course you shouldn't blindly believe everything you read man. Experiment and see what works for you.
 

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guys i recommend you find your city lair and post in it's forum. better community and unlike this place it probably will have Gurus posting in it.

there are forums that have some of the big names in them. Miami, NY. Las Vegas and Los Angeles each have a bunch of lairs with forums and gurus. (the ones mentioned in The Game and such)
 

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Originally posted by Logen
guys i recommend you find your city lair and post in it's forum. better community and unlike this place it probably will have Gurus posting in it.

there are forums that have some of the big names in them. Miami, NY. Las Vegas and Los Angeles each have a bunch of lairs with forums and gurus. (the ones mentioned in The Game and such)
Does chicago have lairs? Im sure we do. how can I find them?

I would love to actually meet some experts first hand. That would help me out more than just internet advice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, it's like learning anything.

Buy a book and some tapes on speaking French, buy a DVD on yoga or whatever and you can make progress but hang around with French spreakers or go to a yoga class and your progress will be that much better.
 

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Good thing about advice is you can do 2 things with it. Take it or leave it.

Get off your high horse about the keyboard jokeys. They are here to learn. What would be the point of a site to learn about getting girls if everyone on it knew? Its like a school with just teachers.


Neil Strauss will know about this site.
 

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Originally posted by Logen
guys i recommend you find your city lair and post in it's forum. better community and unlike this place it probably will have Gurus posting in it.

there are forums that have some of the big names in them. Miami, NY. Las Vegas and Los Angeles each have a bunch of lairs with forums and gurus. (the ones mentioned in The Game and such)
do an internet search, yahoo groups, msn groups. these sort of things
 
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