"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wonder if there is any truth behind these words, aside from the joke.

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I was talking to this girl online last night and over time she has said im cute, sweet, adorable, gorgeous, charming, amazing, so I was like.....

"So im cute, sweet, adorable, gorgeous, charming, good personality, and im charming......im on a roll"

She said "yea your the perfect guy......for sarah hahah" its a joke me and her have going about a girl that wants to basically rape me and she knows this because I pasted her part of my convo with the sarah girl that said "You should come over nobody is home".


Is this her way of being subtle with her feelings or just a joke.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It sounds like a friends zone joke but it also sounds like s hyt test in a way trying to get you off to see if you are able to prove that you are a decent man for her.
 
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Did I mention this girl drove 45 minutes to meet me, and now is begging me to come to her neighborhood to make a day of it? Basically giving me a list of things we can do. All of which are 1 on 1.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sounds like she is seeing if you will take the bait and confess you like her friend and not her.

sounds like the girl diggs you bro
 
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if she drove to see you, just go hang out with her and see what happens. Worst case scenario: You hang out with a female friend one afternoon.
 
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