"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wonder how many of the PUAs have, or had, STDs

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Sorry about the buzzkill topic. I'm just curious if people like Mystery, Style, Brent, David D, Tyler, etc catch many STDs in their profligate bonerisation of the female species.

STDs are the main reason I don't sleep around more. I'm particularly terrified of herpes - which is permanent, which can be caught despite a condom, and which can show no symptoms in the person who has it.

Of all the PUA stuff I've heard and seen so far, nobody has mentioned STDs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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17 girls bedded - no STD's.
Maybe herpes or genital warts but i dont show the symptoms so its cool - 2/3s of people have the virus by the way and only like 6% show symptoms so why care?
 

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oldschooler said:
Get well versed in what Chlamydia is and the symptons.
It's VERY common almost every where and most sexual active females probably have it.

Thankfully, it's curable and is the source of most STD false alarms.

Source: My multiple doctors who proclaim that it's like the number one STD/STI case and that most believe it to be something much more sinister.

Safe sex no regrets, don't be silly wrap your willy, your uncool if you don't protect that tool etc etc.
Most?
 

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I have wondered this myself

if you sleep with a 100 women you bound to catch something man
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its hard to believe all the mega rockstars havent dropped dead yet. Or Porn stars for that matter. I heard a story of how Motley cure had a contest to see who could go the longest without a shower on tour. If I remember correctly it was something ridiculous like 23 days or something. These are guys that would pick four women for themselves every single night. How the hell do they still have dycks? Even if they wrapped it up every time, and took daily showers, you'd think they would still have every STD in the book. Guys like that have literally banged over a thousand girls.

The only stars I know of who have got aids were Easy E, John holmes, Freddy Mercury (gay though, if it counts) and Magic Johnson. (Im sure there are plenty more) As much pvssy as celebrities get, thats a ridiculously low amount.
 

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I have mentioned this here before, my wife of seven years had herpes the entire time we were married, and the real kind that actually causes sores, not the "dr says you have it from a blood test" that I think is a bunch of baloney. We never used condoms, and I never got it.

Also, my last gf was pretty much the town ho, has done over a hundred guys, and I doubt without ever using a condom, and I never got anything from her, despite once again never using condoms, which I have not done since I was 16 and took my girlfriend to the clinic to put her on the pill.

I did get a very minor STD from a girl at law school, molluscum contagiosum, which is like an occasional zit near your d!ck. It goes away by itself in a few months. I also got crabs once...but not from sex. I had a roommate from Mexico City who had about ten of his friends stay the night in our dorm room and left me some Mexican crabs on my bed.

For the most part, though, I still think STD fears are not enough of an excuse to avoid sex, or even use a condom if you are in a LTR with a girl on birth control, and obviously one who you trust. That is really the key in not getting an STD, being with a girl who cares enough about you to want to not give you one.
 

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^ You got MC too? That sh!t sucked, but I still had sex while I had it and none of the girls ever got it. Weird. But anyway.. I'm sure a lot of these PUAs have/had STDs. It's just not something you publically announce. Gene Simmons supposedly has been with over 1400+ woman. He has to have something. And what about Mr. Bret Michaels? He gets VH1 to get him pvssy and gets PAYED for it. Lucky mofo.
 

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@Bible Belt. How do you know you don't have it? if your immune system is working fine it won't show up and cause sores, but it doesn't mean it isn't dormant in you and contagious via asymptotic shedding.
 

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^ You got MC too? That sh!t sucked, but I still had sex while I had it and none of the girls ever got it.

I used to go to a dermatologist to have the sores curetted off, basically scooped out with a little knife. One dermatologist thought I was nuts to put up with pain for the sake of a painless condition. I was thinking, "no, I just have a date." My LTR girlfriend who gave it to me swore she never had anything.


Regarding the herpes question:
How do you know you don't have it? if your immune system is working fine it won't show up and cause sores, but it doesn't mean it isn't dormant in you and contagious via asymptotic shedding.

I have never believed the theory of asymptomatic shedding being contagious. It is only really just a theory. Maybe it has happened to somebody somewhere, but you probably have a bigger chance of being hit by lightning. My ex-wife got a herpes outbreak every few months, she could feel it coming, and we would not have sex. We had sex hundreds of times without ever using a condom.

Then, with no condoms ever and a lot of sex with each girl, I had the MC gf for a year, another gf for a couple months, the slvtty girl for 8 months or so, and then my current gf whom I live with for the past year and a half. No herpes. If I don't get sores and I don't give anyone herpes, I don't see how I have the disease.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You probably have it, just you won't ever show any signs or symptoms. I've also had sex with a girl who had herpes and I have yet to show any signs or symptoms. I'm sure if I were to take a blood test it would say I'm positive for it, but I've never had any sores and such.

As for the MC thing what worked for me was going to the store getting this wart removal thing. It's supposed to freeze warts and they fall off naturally within 10-15 days. I just used that and most of them went away, there were a few I had to pry off myself but they healed eventually and I virtually have no scars left from it. It may be painless but I was still paranoid about having sex for awhile, but I still did it anyways. I didn't want any girls mistaking it for something worse such as actual herpes. :/
 

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I got chlamydia from a chick I banged when the condom broke and so I went raw. Went to get checked after that because I was worried banging her Raw and sure enough I they said I got Chlamydia. They gave me a pill and it went away. Never again will I fvck without a condom under any circumstances.
 

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what are the chances of catching an STD if you've only had sex with one girl and wore a condom. Although i think she's been with a couple of people....
 

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Many people cannot openly admit it and maybe shouldn't but... I want to bang as many women as I can before I die. STD's however are my biggest fear and I certainly don't plan on catching any. How high are the chances of catching something?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible Belt, how did your ex get her Herps?
 

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Very low chance of catching anything serious if you used a condom. They prevent things like HIV and hepatitis, but not things like herpes or genital warts. Gonorrhea and chlamydia are quite common now. Statistics show that 1/6 women are now infected with one of those two diseases. Condoms work against both of them.
 

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The chances of catching an STD from 1 or an 100 girls is equal.

Why?

You could be on Holiday, meet a girl, get it on, condom breaks - bam STD.

You could sleep with a 100 girls, girls that dont appear to be complete sluts and catch nothing.

Personnally, i've fuc*ed more woman then I can count, well over 100 on reflection (thats not alot in the shape of things, 52 weeks in a year, I've lived over 34 years).

I've never ever caught anything at all, I also have friends who have slept with just as many woman if not more, they have caught nothing bar thrush (just means you cant wee that well for a couple of days).

All this STD stuff, yeh its out there, but who's to say you wont get an STD from fuc*ing one woman? Nothing at all.

Yes your exposing yourself when you increase the numbers, but the odds of catching an STD per girl is about equal.

Alot of guys use this excuse to justify not sleeping with girls or plate-spinning girls, i.e "I don't want to catch something" - but in all honesty, you probably won't catch shi*.

The guys that seem to catch STD's are in-fact the guys who don't get sex, the type of guy who would fcuk anything due to his low sense of self-esteem, a guy who would simply jump into the sack with anyone due to being 'lucky' - PUA, players e.t.c usually fu** woman with standards rather then the local bike or the town tramp - those types of girls would fuc* anyone game or not - hence when a guy as developed options, I believe your chance at getting an STD is reduced and this is the only way to limit your exposure to an STD (bar being a monk).

Not by the number of women you sleep with (since you only need to sleep with one) - but by making sure the woman you choose to sleep with seem to be girls who won't jump into the sack with just anyone.

I wouldn't reccommend a guy sleep with or date the local who*e anyway - If a girl has slept with more then 10 guys, she should be ruled out (not that you can ask, but you can gauge her reaction to this rather easily, by telling her about similier situations and seeing what she thinks about it - for example "Did you hear about Jackie, I heard she as slept with about 15 guys").
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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