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give some to charity spend like 500 for youself right now (if not less), and invest the rest.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Im hoping that your post was about donating the money to church. Cuz in that case... PRAISE BABY PRAISE. Im actually surprised im not the only christian on this forum lol.Originally posted by bbestar
You know like I know, Many religions out there, they want your money. They will ask for your money even if your not part of there group just for there own self pleasure and gain, and people do give it just for feeling good about themselves thinking they score points with God or Heaven or religious leaders.
But BBNradio.org as a ministry. They don't need your money. God doesn't need your money. For the past 33 years bbn at its humble beginings have trusted God for there needs. Today bbnradio broadcasts in 7 different languages World Wide. With a Budget of 5 Million dollars, you would think that they depend on daily commercials or rich wealthy citizens with 5000 dollars.
The truth is, each dollar has been prayed, trusted in with many tears. From people like me and old fashion folk who believe that the ministry of bbn is doing what the Lord Jesus Christ has said to do. To spread the Good News to the ends of the earth.
Basically what im trying to say is. With that 5000 dollars in your hand. Do what ever you want to do with it.
I agree.Originally posted by Centaurion
Fvck charity. That's probably the stupidest sh!t you can do.
Spend it on booze and b!tches, as I can see from your KBJing that you need to get out more.
LMAO... you got to be fvcking kidding me!!! Christ, your just as BS as the church itself, w. their hypocritically finangling ways.Originally posted by bbestar
You know like I know, Many religions out there, they want your money. They will ask for your money even if your not part of there group just for there own self pleasure and gain, and people do give it just for feeling good about themselves thinking they score points with God or Heaven or religious leaders.
But BBNradio.org as a ministry. They don't need your money. God doesn't need your money. For the past 33 years bbn at its humble beginings have trusted God for there needs. Today bbnradio broadcasts in 7 different languages World Wide. With a Budget of 5 Million dollars, you would think that they depend on daily commercials or rich wealthy citizens with 5000 dollars.
The truth is, each dollar has been prayed, trusted in with many tears. From people like me and old fashion folk who believe that the ministry of bbn is doing what the Lord Jesus Christ has said to do. To spread the Good News to the ends of the earth.
Basically what im trying to say is. With that 5000 dollars in your hand. Do what ever you want to do with it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.