"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wipe my ass with Alpha-Male propaganda

Jester

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It's amazing the amount a person can change in only a few years. I still believe in the majority of the original post, with the exception of the ending., yet I am glad I have had years of learning and experience after reading my very immature replies to the contradicting arguments.

I would still rebuff the fallacy argument, primarily because right and wrong is the Justice system's measurement of sanity. Regarding such an intangible concept, how much better of a definition could possibly be made?

To the Egoist's argument: You may be surprised, I agree with Egoism. Altruism as a philosophy In my opinion is not a totally valid premise. Simply stated, to give also means to get. Some cultures regard gifts as impolite because they transfer a debt, whether it be tangible or intangible.

Thanks for the arguments fellas.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MoveYourAss...

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The eternal problem is:

In order to further grow in knowledge, power and personality, you have to have a certain humility.

This, however, apart from the fools using this as an excuse for beeing a pvssy, seems contradictory with appearing as a strong "alpha" man with unshakable frame.

DOUBT about your views is provoking fear of weakness, but still it is the prerequisite for growth, and thus for strength.

Of course you can stop at one point and be satisfied, even proud of yourself, and use your well-developped alpha-show. But this is not what truly makes a man.
 

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what the fcuk is this, The Republic? Justice/right and wrong?

In any case, excellent post Jester. The "alpha-male" junk is nice when you're still in super ACF mode, but once you've read it all, done the hw (practice), you begin to see how corny it is.

Thank you again for the wake up post. :up:
 
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